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Reflections on Sandy Hook: What Is the Root of the Problem?

Tiffany Gabbay has been a writer and communications specialist for the past decade. Her passion for politics was fostered at an early age by her father, a  […]
Tiffany Gabbay has been a writer and communications specialist for the past decade. Her passion for politics was fostered at an early age by her father, a successful entrepreneur and war hero. Tiffany worked as a Journalist on Capitol Hill where she interviewed some of the Beltway's biggest names, and also served as Deputy Director of a Republican Women’s advocacy group. Prior to her time in the beltway, Tiffany spent a number of years in the U.K. where she began her career in publishing. She started out in London's insurance and risk management industry as associate publisher for a popular trade publication, and later served as global communications manager for an international insurance trade body based in Manchester. She is a graduate of the National Journalism Center in Washington, D.C. and studied communications at the London Institute.
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The massacre at Sandy Hook, just like those before it at Columbine and Aurora, are heartrending chapters in American society that have left many searching for answers and solutions to what seems like an epidemic unique only to the United States — shooting sprees carried out in seemingly indiscriminate fashion by deeply disturbed individuals, or rather, kids. While a troubling trend to say the least, consider it alongside the daily mass-murder, bombings, shootings, and other savage attacks waged by terrorists against innocents across the Middle East and Africa on a daily basis. While people cite religious extremism as the motivation in these instances, others would argue that they are equally wrought in nothing more than mental illness and a penchant for evil and destruction.

At the end of the day, we still try to rationalize and heal the wounds in whatever ways we know how. Thus, people reactively look to gun control as the obvious answer.

While it may be an unpopular viewpoint, it is not entirely unreasonable to think that the nation’s gun laws can be reformed without shredding the U.S. Constitution or stripping away Americans’ Second Amendment rights. Oftentimes, these tragedies were not entirely unforeseeable. After all, Adam Lanza’s mother seemed rather vocal about her son’s disturbance, yet she herself was not a pillar of mental or emotional stability. After all, why would she bring her son, who she clearly believed to be disturbed, to shooting ranges to help him hone his skill? And why would she leave a firearm within his reach? It is safe to say she is in some ways as accountable as her son — perhaps even more so.

But what about the deeper issue at play? All of the weapons bans in the world will do naught to change our culture’s morbid obsession with death and violence.  Perhaps we, as a society, should look to the fact that impressionable young minds are given unfettered access to music, movies, television programs and video-games that glorify carnage on a regular basis.

Of course our First Amendment rights give filmmakers, writers, music-makers and videogame creators the freedom to produce works containing violent themes just like we have the freedom to consume them (or not). But how do films like “Saw” and “Hostel” really contribute to society? Why has the bar of stimulus been set so high, and at such a depraved level? Have we not desensitized ourselves and our children to what is nothing more than barbarism?

Sure, normal, everyday people are not going to commit unspeakable acts simply for having listened to rap music or for watching the latest slasher-film, but that is not to say there aren’t longterm societal effects brought to bear by what we, ourselves, condone (sometimes unwittingly) each and every day.

As the sun goes down American innocence  it is safe to assume that those who committed the unspeakable acts of barbarism against their fellow man in the Columbine, Aurora, and now Newtown tragedies, would have found a way to wreak their havoc come hell or high water, whether assault weapons had been banned or not. Consider the fact that the average person can procure a gun on the streets of New York City — where Mayor Bloomberg has made it essentially impossible for one to obtain a legal gun permit —  through its black-market in the blink of an eye. When one is bent on causing harm, it is difficult to imagine small details such as the legality of gun ownership standing in his or her way.

While the U.S. suffers its share of violence, it is vastly different from the level and types of violence witnessed in other parts of the world. Thus, we apply our own subjective views and societal norms when attempting to make sense of incidents like Sandy Hook. In the end, however, what sense can ever be found in the senseless? In our civilized society, atrocities like this are not supposed to happen — certainly not by one of “our own.” We live in nation that enjoys much freedom, so is it entirely implausible that those very freedoms may, at times, be abused and perverted?

While catalysts may differ, in the end, isn’t evil enacted simply motivated by evil?

Comments (4)

  • tomacz
    Posted on January 5, 2013 at 2:29pm

    search all acquaintences,,well ,not search,maybe informally poll,for problem kids how do you treat them,talkbackers,battlers,self willed,non listening to instruction suggestion,,check the AM SQWAWKER for ‘programs’,total transformation,check the net for childrens mental health,,ask your husband,wife,minister,work buddy,teachers,a rabbi,priest,kids like the goof adam once was,
    exhaust parents,brothers sisters for years,parents are stuck with an obviously disturbed adult,,,till something realy bad goes down,,on thias issue,mental health,how did that wacko get firearms??

    intervene early,if possible,needle the bureaucracy to do something different,there are mds (AAEM)
    like dorothy calabrese,a california dr who asked AAEM ,with laurie l york ( atty,texas) to petition SCOTUS for a hearing on forcing HHS to recognize AAEM as specialists in allergy and immunology

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  • Desertlakesflying
    Posted on December 24, 2012 at 6:58pm

    Actors exposed in Sandy Hook tragedy.

    Go to this photo album while it’s still there folks. http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1183836878964.2027307.1319508132&type=3

    They are not the “Phelps”.

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  • Terry1242
    Posted on December 20, 2012 at 1:05pm

    I don’t think this is entirely because of the culture we live in today. I grew up with a violent paranoid schizophrenic and I was often in fear for my life. This was 40 years ago. The mental health system is as bad today as it was then.
    In this case, however–and I seem to be the only person in the US who thinks this–perhaps an introverted isolated little boy was affected by his parents’ divorce and by the fact that according to reports Dad hadn’t lived there since 2001? When he was 9? Then Mom does most of the work. Dad hadn’t seen him in 2 years. Wouldn’t you be angry? Everyone thinks divorce is so swell today, but I know a kid who had a nervous breakdown and was hospitalized after his parents’ “amicable” divorce. Better they’d stayed together. As for Nancy’s mini vacation–she may have been self-indulgent (and spoiled by Dad’s financial payoff for taking Adam off his hands almost entirely), but believe me, if you haven’t lived with it, you don’t know what it’s like to deal with someone who’s severely mentally ill. I couldn’t wait to escape.

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  • nesuhi
    Posted on December 20, 2012 at 12:45pm

    I think that the problem you’ve written about may be the hardest of all for us to fix.

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