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All-Male Iowa Supreme Court Rules Bosses Can Fire Employees for Being ‘Irresistibly Attractive’

IOWA CITY, Iowa (AP) — A dentist acted legally when he fired an assistant that he found attractive simply because he and his wife viewed the woman as a threat to their marriage, the all-male Iowa Supreme Court ruled Friday.

The court ruled 7-0 that bosses can fire employees they see as an “irresistible attraction,” even if the employees have not engaged in flirtatious behavior or otherwise done anything wrong. Such firings may be unfair, but they are not unlawful discrimination under the Iowa Civil Rights Act because they are motivated by feelings and emotions, not gender, Justice Edward Mansfield wrote.

An attorney for Fort Dodge dentist James Knight said the decision, the first of its kind in Iowa, is a victory for family values because Knight fired Melissa Nelson in the interest of saving his marriage, not because she was a woman.

But Nelson’s attorney said Iowa’s all-male high court, one of only a handful in the nation, failed to recognize the discrimination that women see routinely in the workplace.

“These judges sent a message to Iowa women that they don’t think men can be held responsible for their sexual desires and that Iowa women are the ones who have to monitor and control their bosses’ sexual desires,” said attorney Paige Fiedler. “If they get out of hand, then the women can be legally fired for it.”

Nelson, 32, worked for Knight for 10 years, and he considered her a stellar worker. But in the final months of her employment, he complained that her tight clothing was distracting, once telling her that if his pants were bulging that was a sign her clothes were too revealing, according to the opinion.

He also once allegedly remarked about her infrequent sex life by saying, “that’s like having a Lamborghini in the garage and never driving it.”

Knight and Nelson — both married with children — started exchanging text messages, mostly about personal matters, such as their families. Knight’s wife, who also worked in the dental office, found out about the messages and demanded Nelson be fired. The Knights consulted with their pastor, who agreed that terminating Nelson was appropriate.

Knight fired Nelson and gave her one month’s severance. He later told Nelson’s husband that he worried he was getting too personally attached and feared he would eventually try to start an affair with her.

Nelson was stunned because she viewed the 53-year-old Knight as a father figure and had never been interested in starting a relationship, Fiedler said.

Nelson filed a lawsuit alleging gender discrimination, arguing she would not have been terminated if she was male. She did not allege sexual harassment because Knight’s conduct may not have risen to that level and didn’t particularly offend her, Fiedler said.

Knight argued Nelson was fired not because of her gender, but because her continued employment threatened his marriage. A district judge agreed, dismissing the case before trial, and the high court upheld that ruling.

Mansfield noted that Knight had an all-female workforce and Nelson was replaced by a woman.

He said the decision was in line with state and federal court rulings that found workers can be fired for relationships that cause jealousy and tension within a business owner’s family. One such case from the 8th Circuit Court of Appeals upheld a business owner’s firing of a valued employee who was seen by his wife as a threat to their marriage. In that case, the fired employee had engaged in flirtatious conduct.

Mansfield said allowing Nelson’s lawsuit would stretch the definition of discrimination to allow anyone fired over a relationship to file a claim arguing they would not have been fired but for their gender.

Knight’s attorney, Stuart Cochrane, said the court got it right. The decision clarified that bosses can make decisions showing favoritism to a family member without committing discrimination; in this case, by allowing Knight to honor his wife’s wishes to fire Nelson, he said.

Knight is a very religious and moral individual, and he sincerely believed that firing Nelson would be best for all parties, he said.

“While there was really no fault on the part of Mrs. Nelson, it was just as clear the decision to terminate her was not related to the fact that she was a woman,” he said. “The motives behind Dr. Knight terminating Mrs. Nelson were quite clear: He did so to preserve his marriage.

“I don’t view this as a decision that was either pro-women or opposed to women rights at all. In my view, this was a decision that followed the appropriate case law.”

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Comments (151)

  • dealer@678
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:56pm

    The better looking the babe the bigger the tip. Thats my motto

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    • December22
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 6:29am

      What is this feeling that people have that they are entitled to a job and can’t be fired. Anyone should be allowed to fire anyone for any reason. /

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    • G-WHIZ
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 9:06am

      Ya donna wanna git raped and/or groped…donna dress lika seductive cheep hoar!

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    • poorrichard09
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 9:09am

      I don’t know-if this was appealed to a higher court they might call it discrimination based on sex.
      BTW, would this apply to the male employee of a gay employer? Just askin’.

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    • georgette
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 9:30am

      wait a minute…
      he went through the rigors and demands of his training, graduated, and opened a practice only to demonstrate that he has no discipline and can’t be trusted?

      ……………….ew.

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    • Proverbs17-12NLT
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 10:34am

      This is why man invented KY jelly.

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    • muffythetuffy
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:16am

      WHAT ABOUT UGLY?

      Does this mean horribly ugly people can be fired too?

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    • TermLimitsForCongress
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 2:24pm

      Amen – nobody has a ‘right’ to work for anyone that doesn’t want them as an employee.

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    • SovereignSoul
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 10:50pm

      I hope he doesn’t have any irresistibly ‘attractive patients’

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  • Walkabout
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:52pm

    It was the right decision. A male probably could not wear a tank top to an office setting. But a female can. & show legs, cleavage with a V neck, etc.

    Of course a female boss could fire a male that was to damn attractive.

    The moral of the story is dress down a little bit. Dress “grey”. Solid, stolid plain grey, dark blue are in. After all you in the information age, you are suppose to be hired for what you know not you know or who you blow. Well Monica was an exception.

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    • ModerationIsBest
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:13pm

      Hahaha, you sound like the Muslims who were on trial and asked the court to force the defense attorney to wear pant suits because seeing her legs made them turned on and they wouldn’t be able to fully help in their defense in that state.

      Religion-Tearing away the rights of women for centuries.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:26pm

      ModerationIsBest
      Your only reply was an ad hominem attack. Answer the question below & we will see how wise you are or are not.
      ***
      A male probably could not wear a tank top to an office setting. But a female can. & show legs, cleavage with a V neck, etc. Is that fair?

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    • ModerationIsBest
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 12:22am

      @WALKABOUT

      Who cares whether or not it’s fair?

      Did the guy set a dress code and she continually disobeyed it?

      Maybe I missed it but I didn’t see that as part of the article.

      All I saw was that a guy couldn’t control his hormones because of a woman, and instead of being a man and working through it, instead decided to fire the woman.

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    • survivorseed
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 5:29am

      Hey there Walkabout, you’re going to need a new name for that law and I believe Sharia is already taken

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 10:54am

      survivorseed
      Hey there Walkabout, you’re going to need a new name for that law and I believe Sharia is already taken
      ***
      No not really. The Iowa Supreme Court has ruled the firing just. There is already a name. Firing for just cause or firing for cause.

      Also since I have taken an even handed approach saying that men should not wear revealing or tight clothing I am on firm ground. Also since the same restriction apply to men & women, there is not Sharia about this. Try harder weak seed that will not germinate.

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    • Angel_light
      Posted on December 23, 2012 at 3:28pm

      I agree with ModerationIsBest.

      This is so ridiculous! Just b/c a man can’t control himself does not mean a woman should get punished for what she was BORN WITH! This is so F*cked up and pathetic.

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    • From Virginia
      Posted on December 23, 2012 at 8:49pm

      You libs are pathetic and I’m GLAD of this decision. It was legal precisely BECAUSE it was based on emotion and feelings.

      Instead of having law that is passionless and based on facts you ******** are reaping the law YOU sowed.

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    • Cavallo
      Posted on December 24, 2012 at 9:57am

      What exactly was his other choice? Just get over it? Feel uncomfortable everyday in his own business? Maybe just shut down, fire everyone, and reopen elsewhere? Should who he associates with be completely dictated by a State agency? Maybe all employees can be handed out by a State Employment Agency, and only be allowed to be terminated once the proper appeals process and bureaucratic mechanisms adhered to? The business owner’s mistake was he gave reason for firing her, rather than just telling her, “There is a personality conflict, and it is not working out.”

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  • hugo65hsv
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:50pm

    I agree with the judges.. and call B.S. on the woman and girly men complaining about it…

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  • ChiefGeorge
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:28pm

    Its totally right and here’s why.

    If lets say his thoughts of an affair were realized, his marriage would have been over and his wife would have sued for half his assets and no doubt would have gotten the home in the settlement.

    Of course if she were male this would not have been an issue! She’s missing the point. She was just too dang hot to have around and that takes incredible moral character to admit and then dismiss her for his own safety.

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    • Exrepublisheep
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:41pm

      So women should be forced to wear burkas at work?

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:10pm

      Exrepublisheep’
      The did mention tight clothing. I object to women wearing V necks. Draw line form one collar bone to the other. You shouldn’t see any skin below that in the work place, when it come to the chest.

      Actually I have seen a woman fired before for her tight clothes. He midriff would show from time to time as well.

      If women can where tight clothes, then can men wear tight clothes, cod pieces & tank tops.

      Just think how you would feel if your boss was gay, he promoted a guy over you who wore tight clothes. How mad would you be, if you had a better work ethic & work product? You know that is going to happen. there are dumb gay bosses just like there are dumb straight bosses.
      How would you feel if a straight boss favored a female employee even if her work was subpar compared to yours but she pretty? You know that is going ti happen & has happened. Clothes in the work place matter.
      If a person dresses conservatively & a coworker or boss can’t keep it together that is different.

      Also this was a small business, dentist office, & not a corporation of over 50 people.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:24pm

      Correction:
      If women can wear* tight clothes

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    • Exrepublisheep
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 2:12am

      WALKABOUT, If she was aware of any dress code, if she was counseled about it before, there might be a case. This is simply a man putting his sins onto someone else, making his sins the responsibility of the female.

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    • ArmedAndReallyPissed
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:38am

      EXREPUBLISHEEP : So women should be forced to wear burkas at work?…………CHIEFGEORGE says yes, unless of course they are from Israel, then they should be shot.

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  • Snidely
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:12pm

    This just doesn’t pass the smell test. The story was probably selectively reported to sensationalize it. Although, I do think that an employer should be able to fire someone for any reason; good or bad.

    The real issue here is why is the dateline Iowa City? Iowa city is 200 miles from Ft Dodge, where the incident took place, and 100 miles from Des Moines, where the Supreme Court is located.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:14pm

      Good question. Where does the AP have their bureaus? Many news organization are part of the AP or have a relationship with it. Maybe an APO reporter in Iowa city thought this was story & the AP reported in Des Moines did not? No clue.

      “The Associated Press is an American news agency. The AP is a cooperative owned by its contributing newspapers, radio and television stations in the United States, which both contribute stories to the AP and use material written by its staff journalists. Many newspapers and broadcasters outside the United States are AP subscribers, paying a fee to use AP material without being contributing members of the cooperative.” – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Associated_press

      Again, I cannot answer your question & I wish I knew.

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  • DZ-015
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:08pm

    Isn’t this the same state supreme court that decided that gay marriage had to be permitted in Iowa, no matter what the people wanted?

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:17pm

      Yes, they approved gay marriage on April 3, 2009.

      The gays lost that day. Getting gay marriage is the climax of their culture. Denouement will be … well embarrassing. Many sheepish people will be staring intently at the ground.

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      Walkabout  
  • texastaximan
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:00pm

    Judges got it right. In an alledgedly ‘free’ nation, you may hire or fire whomever you choose, for what ever reason you want. Simple as that. This once great nation is in her death throws now because of this constant need to be a victim and sue the crap out of the perceived victimizer. If this Dentist is such a sorry character, then ultimately his business will go bust. On the other hand, if he continues to do well and prosper, then perhaps he knows what he is doing. Once again, it’s his to decide, not the court or government of any kind.

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    • roscoe569
      Posted on December 24, 2012 at 11:09pm

      Hey!you work for me! .?..You know what? I don’t. Like your ties, Yer Fired…clean out your desk

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  • Patriot Z
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:54pm

    uggghhhh please dont put me in the position of having to defend the victocrat mentality

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  • UnreconstructedLibertarian
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:52pm

    These Iowa Judges have many things in common with Sharia, evidently.

    Maybe next they’ll judge that “irresistably attractive” women wear burkhas to cover their “irresistability”.

    I can’t believe you folks haven’t picked up on this angle yet – because that’s where its coming from.

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    • Noah_fing-whey
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 6:20am

      Hmm…interesting thought. I was thinking more along the lines of radical feminism. These days it is impossible to trust the obvious so I’m glad you pointed that out. It’s like Christianne Ammanpour hosting a show last night on finding Noah’s Ark. I couldn’t make sense of that. Didnt see it the so don’t know how well the show was put together but Ammanpour as host seemed to make as much sense as having Jerry Sandusky hosting a special on child care. Maybe she was great but on the surface she seemed like a odd choice.

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  • lel2007
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:49pm

    The subject is certainly a **** for jokes, but in reality it is an OUTRAGEOUS position for ANY COURT to take. These judges should be removed and dis-bared, and the hung by their neck until dead.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:21pm

      I think if a woman can wear tight clothes & a V neck showing cleavage to work, then guys can wear tank tops that show off their pecs biceps & triceps.
      If enough people act like fools, a percentage will, then we have made our bed as a society.

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  • The-Monk
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:45pm

    I guess Joe Jackson wasn’t on that court……

    “You Gotta Look Sharp ! ”

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YwivI1TJCeQ

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  • lel2007
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:44pm

    So, who is it that determines “irresistible attraction,”. Insane. This judge should be tar, feather, then hung by his neck until dead.

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  • RealLiibertarian
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:42pm

    Went to their pastor for business advice?? What freakin’ loons. This is what happens when the religious whackos among us give up their common sense and live by bronze age rules.

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    • chips1
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:10pm

      They went to their pastor for marriage advice. The government doesn’t know anything about marriage.

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    • ModerationIsBest
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:14pm

      I agree. I love to see the Christians on here talk poorly about the Muslims and how they subjugate women.

      Then you come on here and you see lots of Christians supporting the decision.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:30pm

      ModerationIsBest
      “I agree. I love to see the Christians on here talk poorly about the Muslims and how they subjugate women.”
      ***
      There are some Muslim women who appreciate wearing the hijab. It gives them anonymity & protects them from stares. I bet there are Muslim women who wear western clothes, but there are times when they would want to wear a hijab.

      What I have a problem with is someone saying

      1. they have to wear a hijab.
      2. they can’t leave home without an male escort fro their family
      3. That they can’t drive.

      Take a poll on 1, 2 & 3 of Blaze Readers. The poll results won’t live up to your precious perceptions.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:37pm

      ModerationIsBest

      Just FTI since you are a ,low information voter (i.e. very knowledgeable about liberal positions). Females in my house hold wear bikinis & also drive. Now to make it simple for you I will draw the equivalent of a stick figure so I don’t lose you.

      If one of my daughters wears a bikini at a public pool, I expect guys to keep their hands to themselves or the police will be involved. If one of my daughters wore a bikini to work (most work places) I expect her to be fired & have no recourse. I also expect that if someone laid hands on her, the police would be involved.

      Now in a workplace there is a happy medium between a hijab & a bikini & it ain’t showing cleavage or tight clothing in most office settings.

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    • RealLiibertarian
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 10:52pm

      Walkabout, you must live in one of the flyover states. Try pushing that idea of office clothing in NYC or Boston. What people wear to the job is what they feel comfortable in, and, being comfortable, will do better work. Men or women who can’t handle that need to join the 21st century.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:14pm

      RealLiibertarian
      I like the story of the woman with the engineering degree, who graduated form a university without an engineering program, but got invited to meetings just so guys could see her her cleavage.

      Yup progress.

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    • RealLiibertarian
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:28pm

      Nice evasion, Walkabout. Freedom says people whould wear waht they fell comfortable in, and if feeling sexy equates to feeling comfortable, that should be the person’s choice. Grey? Are you serious? Stop trying to take the colour, style, and excitement out of life. Grey people working in a grey building at a grey job sounds like a vision of hell. Go for the flash, go for the excitement. Take life in big bites. Moderation is for monks.

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    • RaydocX
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:42pm

      Freedom also says hire and fire at will…nif your firing hurts the company you will lose.
      Unless said employer made a pass was rebuffed and then punished,nit may be poor manners but that is choice.

      If your receptionist suddenly comes in with garish facial piercings that disgust clients and cost business, by the ‘smell test’ you could not fire.

      In fact, so long as once employed the employee is at least ‘trying’ it would seem you say no right to fire.

      And why is this a court case? You were fired.. Learn from it, find a new job, even if the goal was just that the old employer was too rigid and uncompromising…

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    • RealLiibertarian
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:54pm

      Raydocx- I work with women who have purple **** and facial piercings, guys who have ponytails to the middle of their back, women who dress like they are clubbing on Jersey shore, bikers, hippies, and all manner of people. None of it matters. The only thing that matters is how they do their jobs. Are they reliable, do they put in their hours, do they finish their workload. If somebody came from the sexual harrassment commission, they’d probably have a heart attack from the comments and jokes that fly around. Nobody cares. People are just too damned uptight, judgemental and controlling.

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    • ModerationIsBest
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 12:35am

      @WALKABOUT
      I’m sure that the guy didn’t mind her tight clothing, until his wife found out about it and got upset.

      Did the guy give her time to change her attire? Doesn’t seem like it going off of the article.

      You also said “in most office settings” Well who is to decide what is classified as “most office settings?” Again, one would assume it would be up to the owner of the business right?

      You keep giving your opinion on what is “appropriate” office attire. Let me ask you, who cares what you think about this issue? This isn’t your office, and it isn’t your company. Again, I’m sure he didn’t mind her attire until he found out his wife was unhappy.

      You tell me I’m “uninformed” which is a laughable statement coming from ignorant religious people who worship books that were written 2000 years ago. You people sure are funny though.

      Your daughters wear bikinis while swimming? They aren’t doing a great job of following the Bible. Last time I checked the Bible didn’t provide a waiver for dressing modestly….unless you’re swimming.

      It’s the old argument of, “THE WHOLE BIBLE IS TRUE….except this part….and that part….and that other part….basically everything I agree with is true, and everything I disagree with is wrong.”

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:05am

      RealLiibertarian

      Nice evasion, Walkabout. Freedom says people would wear what they fell comfortable in, and if feeling sexy equates to feeling comfortable, that should be the person’s choice
      ***
      Dressing at work like you would dress going to a disco, bar, beach or other venue? Your comment speaks for itself. Good luck with that. 5 million years of primate evolution says otherwise.

      I expect women to dress to the nine when going out on the town. I expect more freedom when going to the mall. As you have phrased it & have laid out your logical & (secular) moral argument. A woman could go topless at a convenience store because it made her feel sexy. and in your world she would expect to get service even if the sign said no shirt, no shoes, no service. I think that makes you special.
      HeII using your argument very literally, if a guy or woman wanted to go bottomless at work or to the store, they should be free to do so.

      I have a question for you. Are you an alive, thinking person or are you a program let loose on the internet by some twisted freak?

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:09am

      ModerationIsBest
      I’m sure that the guy didn’t mind her tight clothing, until his wife found out about it and got upset.

      Did the guy give her time to change her attire? Doesn’t seem like it going off of the article.
      ***
      This happened over more than one day. But whatever, you are selectively reading & interpreting.

      Really not worth the time sparring with you as 8th Circuit Court of Appeals will not overturn this, if you read their previous decisions. Have nice day :)

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    • Hispaniconservative
      Posted on December 24, 2012 at 5:13am

      And who the he!! Do you think you are to judge and insult somebody because you don’t like who they consult for their business decisions ? Shut up troll . It you were a true libertarian, it would not bother you with whom the consulted with or how they run their business as long their business practices did not hurt you. Mind your own business. Live and let live “real libertarian”

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  • The Giver
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:35pm

    No job is guaranteed for life. Now everyone knows she was fired from her previous job for dressing inappropriately. You would think that in a dentist’s office, you would have uniforms.
    I’ve seen plenty of women dressed in an unprofessional manner at their jobs. Makes me wonder about the employer for allowing it. There’s a place for everything.
    But this dentist does sound like a problem if he actually said some of the comments mentioned in the story. Maybe he thought she was dressing like that for “dear old pop”. Maybe she was, and it backfired with the wife right there! Good luck to them all.

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    • IOWAGIR
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 6:55am

      the situation should not have gotten that far. The guy could have enforced a dress code or had them wear a lab coat. The wife was jealous so she made him fire her. So what’s that say to the other women that work there…you can keep working here because you not so hot. This is so wrong. So glad it’s a right to work state and yeah no job is guaranteed. We are moving towards Shariah and Sameness. Do we all take a pill to supress human feelings like in the book that is you Avitar? Great book by the way.

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  • Mobuy
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:23pm

    This is absolute crap. Men are responsible for their own thoughts and sexual desires, not the women they are fantasizing about! Men, take some responsibility! Become a grownup! If you are lusting, that’s YOUR problem, not HERS.

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    • mbean
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:33pm

      These judges think like the Taliban. This is disgusting.

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    • Stelex
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:37pm

      No, no no…Thats the illusion, its woman who screw men up. I’ve been there, most of my friends have seen it. You ladies just mess guys up…..its a fact. I’ve seen very intelligent men turn to jello brained idiots when confronted with a hot woman. He77 Eve screwed us all in the G of E and Adam went along no questions asked. Just the facts mam.

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    • Stelex
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:44pm

      Oh, I forgot the wink ;-)

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    • The Giver
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:47pm

      If life was the way you see it, commercials would never have worked. Women and men know how to make themselves more attractive. The word ATTRACTIVE says a lot. This kind of stuff Is all over the Old Testament. Better than any soap opera… Human nature. We are supposed to stay away from situations that are harmful to our souls.
      Why do we try to teach our daughters to dress decently if there’s nothing wrong with showing everything?

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  • The-Monk
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:14pm

    So it’s a right to work State but not a right to look good State?

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    • Shasta
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:30pm

      Maybe they should have just asked her to wear a burka. Islamist males seem to have the same self-control problem.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:27pm

      You can look good without dressing to the nines.

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    • IOWAGIR
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 6:40am

      Amen to that monk! Some of us ladies like to look good and if some men can’t handle it then seek medical attention. I think they still do chemical castratiion.
      http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/exchange/node/1778
      I thing this dentist and his wife should look into it. I suggest that walkabout do the same.
      The real problem is jealous women. The wife felt threatened and her faith in her man is low.
      I bet the majority of complaints to HR and the ombudsman are from women. I bet it’s as high as 98%.

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:28am

      IowaGIRRR

      There is a “sour Grapes” circuit in the human mind that helps us make decisions & stick to them. I suggest that you read up on it. When we make a choice the circuit kicks in & finds reasons to really not like the the choice not taken.
      Granted most guys want to hit on everything. Granted they should keep that in check. But a guy has a harder time to keep it in check if a gal dolls up. That is not all his fault. If a guy comes into work thinking about all the time he realizes that it is wasting his time. If one female co worker dolls up & the rest don’t, he knows whom is wasting his time.
      So what can he do? He can go guerrilla. I did not say gorilla. He can subtly sabotage the woman by responding to work requests or emails just a tad late making it hard on the doll while being on time in responding to others. Someone holding back on you can make life difficult. A doll might want to consider that.

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    • MONICNE
      Posted on December 23, 2012 at 11:50am

      Walkabout, you might be better off leaving this topic alone (but you can’t, can you?)

      Your skewed opinions and outrageous logic are so twisted they reveal you as a self centered faux victim with bitterness towards female superiors. You seem surrounded by bikinis and V necks who are getting all the good stuff that you are denied. Get over it.

      Sometimes our hiring and promotion boards actually turn down otherwise qualified persons because the individuals are harboring self inflicted wounds that they are compelled to incessantly “share” with co-workers and customers. Just get over this. Your mom was a good woman.

      Christmas at the Vietnam Memorial includes a Christmas Tree decorated with memories. It includes Afghanistan and Iraq veteran memories. Say a quick prayer for Vets, just 10 seconds. Please!

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    • Hispaniconservative
      Posted on December 24, 2012 at 5:33am

      I’m asking a dumb question . Why does everybody assume this woman is hot? The reason why shy was fired was for being irresistibly attractive ” to her boss” . It could be her mannerisms or her speech patterns. whatever it was let us not forget that like it or not this is HIS business he can fire and hire who he want, we might not like but it is what it is. If you are his patient and you don’t like what he has done ,THEN CHANGE DENTISTS. SIMPLE, RIGHT? Right? ;-)

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  • Marine25
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:07pm

    Sounds like the good dentist needs a less petulant wife, not a less attractive assistant

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  • jman-6
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:06pm

    Is Iowa a ‘Right to Work’ state? If not they should start the process tomorrow! In a ‘RTW’ state this wouldn’t even be an issue as you don’t have to have a reason to fire someone! Simple as that!

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    • YallComeBack
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:58pm

      THAT is exactly what I was thinking. This is a poor story from a reporting point of view in that it left out one of the key facts.

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    • The_Pointy_End
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:03pm

      Iowa is “at will employment”. You are correct that this is not a problem EXCEPT if the termination is based on race, gender, …..etc. Ms Nelson was claiming she was fired because of gender, claiming her boss would not have been attracted to her if she was male, therefore it was discrimination.

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  • The_Pointy_End
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:05pm

    Iowa has at will employment, an employment relationship in which either party can break the relationship with no liability, unless in a union.

    All I have to say is it would be a bit hurting to the woman who was hired after Ms. Nelson. You are so ugly/old, the doctor will not be attracted to you, therefore his insecure wife won’t have any issue with you.

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    • jman-6
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:11pm

      With Pastors dispensing counseling like this it’s no wonder souls are being lost! Hes’ got as much business being a Pastor as O’bolshevik does!!

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  • ThorLoser
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:04pm

    My job is secure! LOL

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  • Psychosis
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:04pm

    but they are not unlawful discrimination under the Iowa Civil Rights Act because they are motivated by feelings and emotions,

    ………..and the problem is right there …..basing decisions on feelings and emotion ….i give you the liberal mind

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  • TH30PH1LUS
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:04pm

    “…she viewed the 53-year-old Knight as a father figure…”

    “…once telling her that if his pants were bulging that was a sign her clothes were too revealing…”

    …remarked about her infrequent sex life by saying, “that’s like having a Lamborghini in the garage and never driving it.”

    So it would be NORMAL for a dad to say those things to his daughter? Gross. She’s deluded if she thinks that’s appropriate.

    How about the Boss just issue a dress code for his office instead of oogling and fantasizing every day? The man basically said I can’t control myself so you’re fired. Really?

    Everybody in this story seems a little weird.

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    • subic
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:42pm

      Guess the Dr. was afraid that if his pants were bulging she might try to coax him into a raise, lol.

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    • DZ-015
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 9:03pm

      Is garaging the Lamborghini anything like hiding the salami?

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  • Wisdom7
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:03pm

    What ever happened to self-discipline.

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    • OhioRifleman
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:09pm

      It died shortly after chivalry and alongside proper masculinity. Honor died a few months later.

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    • Stelex
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:28pm

      I suspect you ask way to much of today’s society.

      The new 10 commandments………………..

      I will not be offended

      I will not have my child.

      I will not work

      I will not covet, I’ll just take it.

      I will not be responcible.

      I will not face reality

      I will not respect others

      I will not recognize a god

      I will not, not worship money

      I will not have sexual relations with a woman in a blue dress.

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    • Wisdom7
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 11:07pm

      “It died shortly after chivalry and alongside proper masculinity. Honor died a few months later.”

      Sad. Ironically, one can point to radical feminism as the cause.

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  • FISH_BONE
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 7:56pm

    This has been a problem for me my entire life. I keep getting fired because I’m just too damn good looking. Its just not fair.

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  • progressiveslayer
    Posted on December 21, 2012 at 7:53pm

    Looks like I’ll be losing my job.

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    • The-Monk
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:02pm

      Hi Progressiveslayer,

      No wonder I can’t find a job.

      I’ve being pre-Attractive screened out. LOL

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    • FISH_BONE
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:05pm

      No offense Prog, but you have nothing to worry about until you lose a little weight and get rid of that cheesy mustache.

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    • TH30PH1LUS
      Posted on December 21, 2012 at 8:05pm

      Lol

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    • MONICNE
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 10:52am

      The main reason Job Creators do not hire individuals is that they consider them lackluster, overweight, old, cranky and opinionated. We would rather hire young fresh thinkers with good programming skills and bright can-do attitudes, and pay them less to boot. If unemployed persons are really just takers with a convenient excuse, they will stay unemployed one way or another.

      Hammer is free, praise The Lord and our Hard Working Diplomats

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    • Walkabout
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 11:10am

      MONICNE

      Having read your posts, I conclude that there is a 60 to 65% chance that you are not who you say you are.

      Therefore I treat you latest post with skepticism as to its’ wisdom. Good day :)

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    • MONICNE
      Posted on December 22, 2012 at 1:20pm

      This is refreshing from a team of Australians pretending to be US taxpayers and voting US citizens. Hope you all have a great Christmas, I have lots of parties, driving and events to prepare for and attend. We are off now to what might be a surprise engagement dinner, when I get back late tonight I will return to see if you are brave enough to claim to be an individual American.

      Irony is pot calling kettle black!

      By the way as a Senior Manager, I wear what I like. They can’t do without moneymakers and effective leaders who make their goals regardless of the economy. I sometimes wear v necks, so what?

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