Parents of Transgender 6-Year-Old Raise Complaint Against School Banning Child From Using Girl’s Restroom
The parents of a transgender 6-year-old are fighting against the rules in a Colorado school that banned their child from using the girls’ restroom, which is the gender she identifies with.
Coy Mathis was born as a male but, according to his parents, identifies as a female, dressing as girl, gravitating toward more traditionally female toys and expressing a wish to have female body parts.

(Image: Katie screenshot)
“It was starting to be obvious to us that Coy was really uncomfortable being a boy and wanted to know when we were going to take him to the doctor so that they would give him girl parts so that his body would be a girl,” Coy’s mother, Kathryn said, during an exclusive interview with Katie Couric’s show.
The child’s father, Jeremy, explained that Coy was evaluated by a psychologist who “affirmed Coy was transgender.” At this point, Coy’s parents decided to let their son express himself as their daughter.

(Image: Katie screenshot)
Coy was 4 years old when she officially was allowed to express herself as a girl.
On Couric’s show, Coy’s parents explained that her school was initially accepting of her being transgendered but later decided that she would have to use the boy’s restroom or another more private one. Her parents decided to take legal action and with the Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund filed a complaint.
Watch Couric’s interview:
According to the TLDEF’s website, Eagleside Elementary School had previously allowed Coy to use the girl’s restroom but in December 2012 informed her parents of the new rule.
To Couric, Kathryn Mathis said she just wants Coy to have the same opportunities as the other children.

(Image: Katie screenshot)
“By forcing Coy to use a different bathroom than all the other girls, Coy’s school is targeting her for stigma, bullying and harassment,” Michael Silverman, TLDEF’s executive director and a lawyer in the case, said according to TLDEF. “Through the Colorado Anti-Discrimination Act, Coloradans have made it clear that they want all Colorado children to have a fair and equal chance in school. Coy’s school has the opportunity to turn this around and teach Coy’s classmates a valuable lesson about friendship, respect and basic fairness.”
On the other hand, the Denver Post reported the lawyer for Fountain-Fort Carson School District 8, William Kelly Dude, saying the school’s decision is in compliance with the anti-discrimination act:
That decision took into account “not only Coy, but other students in the building, their parents and the future impact a boy, with male genitals, using a girls’ bathroom would have as Coy grew older,” Kelly wrote in a Dec. 28 letter to Silverman.
Dude argued that the district is in compliance with the state Anti-Discrimination Act because “Coy attends class as all other students, is permitted to wear girls’ clothes and is referred to as the parents have requested,” and was allowed access to single-user restrooms used by employees or gender-neutral restrooms in the school’s health room.
As for how other states have handled the issue, CNN reported New York barring any discrimination due to gender identity, while a court in Maine decided a school district did not violate a student’s rights by banning them from the restroom their gender identity would prefer.
The Post reported further Kathryn Mathis saying at a news conference Wednesday that the family feels the restroom restriction “singles her our and stigmatizes her.”
“The school has a wonderful opportunity to teach students that differences are OK, and we should embrace their differences, instead of teaching them to discriminate against someone who is a little different,” she continued, according to the Post.
Watch Mathis speak with the press Wednesday:
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- Canadian Anti-Transgender Ad: ‘Stop Confusing Our Children’
(H/T: Daily Mail)
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Comments (278)
Tri-ox
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:56pmWhy is The Blaze so obsessed with promoting this particular form of child abuse? There is no such thing as a “transgender child” – these children are horribly abused – their parents should be arrested and charged and the children moved into a safe environment – and yet, time and time again, The Blaze praises and promotes this type of shocking abuse.
Disgusting. BLAZE – PLEASE STOP PROMOTING CHILD ABUSE!
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BOGOTSTOGO
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:23pmThe parents should both get 100 lashes and if they are still alive 100 more.
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sligresda
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:32pmyeah, instead we should ignore it so then the problem will go away. like it does with addiction, physical and sexual abuse! right?
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:33pmWhat parent would want this for their child.
What silly people you are.
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PASSIONFORCHRIST
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:40pmThese moron parents have created the backlash they deserve! That poor innocent child.
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AMERICA4EVER
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:49pmBet the parents always wanted a girl…hmmmm.
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Z
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:25amI don’t know Tri-ox. Perhaps it’s more of a “Societal” state of the union. Sick it is.
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Xylliab_of_the_Znarghh
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:55amI think it’s great that kids are learning about this kind of stuff at an earlier age. When I was a kid, I was in the sixth grade before I knew there was any such thing as a tranny. It’s a sin that we were allowed to remain so ignorant for so long. This is a much better time to be a kid. Even if stupid parents try to keep them from learning about the world around them, the internet has made unlimited porn of every imaginable variety available to all the children of the world.
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John655
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 2:11amThis child is a victim of “Medical Professionals” and these apparently deranged parents. Liberilism is a mental disorder.
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mamatango
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 6:40amREAD MY LIPS, PEOPLE–
The cause of this is not parents, nor DHS. These children have been fed genetically modified food all their little lives! GMOs=Genetically modified children!!!
Think about it. Have any of you who have been around for awhile ever in your lifetime seen any society deal with such an issue–babies as soon as they can talk wanting sex operations? NO!
Teens and young people in past few years yes.
If you think through this issue, it’s pretty clear this is a less-than-obvious form of DEPOPULATION, isn’t it? Little girls with “boy parts” and boys without….. No longer in the natural can they create children…nor want to….think about it…..what you end up with is emasculated males and women like
Chastity Bono. (Can’t think of his new name).
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MS02134
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:23amLet me ask you a question.
You have a five year old child. I’m going to assume that you love that child with everything in your being.
Your child is miserable. They cry, they’re depressed, and they can’t seem to find any joy in their life. They’re having problems making and keeping friends, are doing poorly in school, and spend most of their time moping around their room. The child tells you on a regular basis that they were born into the wrong body, and that they wish that they had never been born. All of a sudden they start self-harming themselves. They threaten suicide, and you catch your child in an attempt.
After getting some professional help, the MD tells you that your child would be more comfortable presenting in a gender that is opposite what the chomosomes and external plumbing suggest, and tells you that all of these serious problems will disappear if the child starts presenting the way that he or she wants. Fearing that you’re going to lose your child, you decide to give it a shot.
Within weeks, the depression lifts. Your child starts making friends. He or she is succeeding in school. They’re happy, and enjoying life again. They’re no longer harming themselves, are no longer telling you that they wish that they were dead, and have started acting like a normal child. There are no more suicide attempts. You finally feel as if your child is safe again.
What would you do in this situation?
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MS02134
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:23amWould you let your preconceived notions force you to tell your child to “suck it up”, and cut the nonsense, thus drastically increasing the chances that you’re going to find a dead child when you go to get the child ready for school? Or will you allow the child to present in the desired gender which will fix all of the problems without much cost, any dangerous, psychoactive drug therapy, or pain and anguish on the part of the child?
Gender is NOT what is laid out in the chomosomes, or what exists between a person’s legs. Gender is what the brain thinks a body is, and those two things can be diametrically opposed in many people.
If my child can have a happy life, and a good prognosis by presenting as a member of the opposing gender, I’m going to do everything I can to make that happen. And I don’t care how an ignorant society feels. I’d prefer a bunch of annoyed neighbors, schoolmates, co-workers and family members to having a dead child. I can educate those folks. I can’t bring back a dead child.
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CABERNETQHS
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:37amWe have a neighbor boy that started dressing up in my daughters princess costumes at age 4. No one was encouraging him, actually my son was trying to get him to play sports or military games with no success. The boy’s parents would get distressed when they would come get him and he was dressed as snow white. They definitely were not encouraging the behavior. There may not be an easy answer here… no one should have to share a bathroom with the opposite sex at school, but I do know that people can be born with both sets of genitalia, so why can’t they have other genetic diferences we can’t see? My kids tell me he only hangs out with girls. Eventually it will probably come out he is gay…it happens for whatever reason. God gives us challenges, it’s how we handle them and treat others that counts.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:20amAre these parents out of their mind? The kid is six, he doesn’t have a sexual identity yet. The child has a penis, he’s a boy. He needs to use the little boy’s room. He’s 6 and he’s still growing, put boy clothes on him. These parents are sick, this is child abuse.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:24amMS: “Gender is NOT what is laid out in the chomosomes, or what exists between a person’s legs. Gender is what the brain thinks a body is, and those two things can be diametrically opposed in many people.”
For a party that loves “science”, you people sure ignore what doesn’t fit your narrative. Gender is determined by chromosomes, period. The boy has a penis, he is a boy. He’s 6, he doesn’t have a sexual identity yet. He’s acting out. He doesn’t “Identify as the opposite gender”. Yes, this boy does need to just suck it up, grow up, and move on. You seriously need to go take some biology, anatomy and physiology, and some genetics classes. The kind of classes where you actually look at fact, not just ask you how you feel about the facts.
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Trigus
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:35amthere is only way a 6 year old could be transgender: Boy to Girl – if the idiots who are the parents dress him as a girl. oh, and that explains it. This couple is from the new california – colorado.
I agree – a lot more stuff happening in the world for the liberal left staff of the blaze to put this as a top story. This is why subscriptions are declining on blazetv/gbtv and the push to get the struggling channel on different carriers.
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rangerskippy
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:39amSo of Junior woke up one day, and told mommy and daddy that he was born into the wrong species, and that he was actually a dog, would they take him out back, put him in a kennel, and feed him kibble?
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rangerskippy
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:40amis there absolutely any doubt that the parents are anything but far left, progressive liberals that believe homosexuality is natural, and that they voted for Obama?
They are destroying a child.
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mecanic
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:48amso very sad what we have become in AMERICA, and how very sad for this little “boy” and the rest of his life because of very sick people. i won’t call them parents, because there not.
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Shiroi Raion
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 10:47amColorado is constantly in the news with these crazy Liberals. I wish I could afford to move to Texas or Wyoming or Utah… someplace sane. I’m ashamed to live in this state.
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happygranny
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 11:08amI can’t believe that there is such as a thing as a transgender 6 year old. This is a child after all who is not old enough to be able to make these kind of choices. Why are the parents obsessed with the transgender issue. Put the kid in boy clothes, explain to him that God and nature made him a little boy and he should be proud of what he is.
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WarMunger_Al
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:14pmThere is no such thing as a transgender 6 year old. These parents should be arrested for mentally harming their child.
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WarMunger_Al
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:17pmMS-
5 year olds do not think in those terms, your an idiot like all the left wing nut jobs. Children just play, they pick the toys they want and they don’t consider what their 5 year old peers like.
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P8riot
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:35pmthe city of phoenix just passed a bill that allows transgendered (mentally ill) people to use whichever bathroom they feel like that day… google “bathroom bill” in the news.
Lets see how long it takes for college guys to simply put on a mini-skirt then go walking into the female bathrooms or gym lockers and no one can stop them after laws like this…
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thepath
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:59pmSo sad, gone are the days of just being a kid, having a carefree and innocent childhood. Everything has consequences, including the gender-neutral push going on in this country now. Years ago, little girls who didn’t like to wear dresses, liked to climb trees, played with toy trucks, were called “tomboys,” but it didn’t mean they should be boys. Maybe they had a lot of brothers and wanted to fit in with them. Then they grew up, into women. Where does a kid get the idea, he “wanted to know when we were going to take him to the doctor so that they would give him girl parts so that his body would be a girl”? Was it the psychologist that told him he was “transgender,” how old was he then, 4? Kids go through different stages as they grow, and hopefully with guidance from their parents they learn in different ways, including through modeling, but if it’s necessary to take a 4-year-old to a counselor, I would have opted for Christian counseling.
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angryfreebird
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 2:35pmI didn’t hear any praise, they are only reporting it. The way good journalism should.
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mwiland
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 4:37pm@tri-ox: if i could give you comment a thumb up i would give it 2. This is a form of child abuse, my 4yo barely knows what he wants for lunch. I wonder if this BOYS parents are aware things called ‘phases’ that all children go through. They are normal and they will also grow out of them.
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Thomas
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 5:19pmThose parents should be charged with child abuse. They are raising a mentally ill child (they probably are at fault for it) and now everyone else is suppose to change for them? This is the problem with perversion is that everyone else is suppose to change to suite them.
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TX_Ag_Engineer
Posted on March 1, 2013 at 11:21amWhat about the mom and dad that don’t want their little girl to see this boys “plumbing” in the little girls bathroom? Why do we keep catering to these warped people?
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Scruff
Posted on March 1, 2013 at 6:24pmThey name their baby boy “Coy”? No question where the problem lies.
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hi
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:53pmDon’t girls have a right to not have a boy with a penis in their bathroom?
When we visited a certain college in CA, we found that the men and women share the same bathrooms and showers in the dorm. It’s really crazy.
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4xeverything
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 7:34amThat was my first thought. I don’t understand when women and our right to privacy (and not to mention our right to defend ourselves) have become disposable. I wear pants and wish I didn’t have a period every month…does that make me a boy? Perhaps, so there is no confusion, we should rename bathrooms. How about X Chromosome and Y Chromosomes bathrooms?
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MS02134
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:31amThe bathrooms at my university were co-ed. In my four years there, there were never any issues. There is nothing sexually stimulating about seeing men nor women climbing out of bed first thing in the morning.
It’s a non-issue.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:26amApparently the libs on this page don’t have kids and have never been around kids for any extended period of time.
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TX_Ag_Engineer
Posted on March 1, 2013 at 11:24amMy thoughts exactly. This country is so worried about the “rights” of the minority, but doesn’t mind destroying the rights of the majority.
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capitalismrocks
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:46pmThe kid is 6!!!!!!!!!!!! He’s not Transgender for Christ Sake, he’s going through a phase a lot of little boys or girls go through, wanting to wear other kids clothes, the parents are screwing with this kids head and CPS should take that poor child away from his deranged parents!!!
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:52pmOh, but they noticed “at 18 months”. (?)
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CatB
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:53pmI so agree .. these parents are obviously too screwed up themselves to raise a child. 6 years old !!!
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tzion
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:34pmFully agree. Everything they used as justification for his being a girl is based purely on stereotypes to begin with. Is it really an issue if a boy likes girls’ toys or clothing? Why does he have to become a girl in order to like things that are stereotypically female? How is this any different than forcing a girl to take dance lessons instead of sports or telling a boy that pink can’t be his favorite color? Just allow people to express themselves as they wish instead of having to conform to society’s stereotypes.
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Cavallo
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:48pmThe parents are twisted, and the people of Colorado must be twisted and deranged to tolerate this child abuse as normal.
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survivorseed
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:58pmC’mon christians…before you judge, why not walk a mile in someone elses shoes. You have read 3 paragraphs of a story designed to outrage you, and you instantly know the entire history of this child.
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toto
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:14amAgree with you, pity this poor, poor child. He doesn’t stand a chance.
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ezalbeht666
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 2:43am@CAPITALISMROCKS Came here to say the same thing.
It’s a phase people
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theBru
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 6:45amThis is a learned behavior, and guess who taught it to the kid…no 2 yr old knows whether it is a girl or a boy…these are some sick parents and should be punished…sometimes a parent should be aborted, late term, like right after they show tendencies like this…
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Gonzo
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:10amIt’s child abuse.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:30amAnd they’re worried the kid will be exposed to “harassment”. Yeah, that’s called public shaming. Humans have done that since the beginning of our species to put deviants of all types in our social circles back in line. This kid is going to grow out of it, then be embarrassed for the rest of time by his parents showing pictures to his future girlfriend that he used to dress in little girls’ clothes.
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Sparky101
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:37pmCome on survivorseed, you are both judging and making a preposterous conclusion. Please either follow your own advice or quit dispensing it.
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pagraywolf
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:44pmI guarantee my daughter would would be taken out of any school that allows males in the restroom or locker room. I don’t care if the boy thought he was a girl – my child would not be exposed to this. Hats off to the school for not allowing this behavior.
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KickinBack
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:38pmHoney Boo Boo vs. Honey Bo Bo.
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ThorLoser
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:36pmMy daughter identified as being a cat. Should we have sued the school for not letting her use a litter box?
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:45pmThe ignorance on this site is mind boggling.
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:46pmIs that supposed to make sense or be humorous.
TWO fails.
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am123
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:04pmOne, it was humorous, and two, unless you have a mind clouded by darkness, it made perfect sense and was entirely logical.
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usedCZARsalesman
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:12pmVERSE…I get that you are a troll, but surely EVEN YOU can’t think a 6 year old can “identify as a female”…are you really that twisted?
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VitW
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:20pmFantastic point about the cat analogy! Beautifully logical. He is a boy. He is not a hermaphrodite. He is a boy. To insist that you identify with being a girl is no different than someone who insists that they identify with being a cat. I’d do one better than the litter box. Nudity. Animals don’t wear clothes, unless forced to by their oppressive owners. The argument holds up and parallels in every way. Reminds me of “The Life of Brian”: Francis – “It is symbolic of our struggle against oppression.” Reg – “It’s symbolic of his struggle against reality.”
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:39pmSome babies are born with what the medical community
calls AMBIGUOUS GENITALS.
For many decades, because it was surgically easier, doctors operated
and made ‘vaginas’. The parents knowing the child would never have
kids of her own.
And guess what?
Many of these girls at 2 or 3 like sports more than dolls.
And trucks and soldiers more than easy bake ovens.
It’s not only about what’s on the outside and
you folks are absolutely hopeless.
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:55pmWhat exactly is a troll?
Someone who doesn’t carry the party line?
I certainly admit I don’t base my opinions on ANY topic
by what it says in the bible.
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VitW
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:05amFirst off, Vercey, there’s no confusion about this kid’s genitalia. Second, your comment, “Many of these girls at 2 or 3 like sports more than dolls. And trucks and soldiers more than easy bake ovens” is so incredibly sexist! What? Do only men play sports? Do only women cook? I’ll enlighten you as to what is hopeless. People who project their own small-mindedness onto others. They never can see the limitations of their own intellect and find their way to growth. Point of advice, read more, type less.
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TH777
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:29am@Verceofreason: If this sight is so horrific to you then why do you insist on coming back and commenting?? Go back to where you belong. Now wasn’t that a simple solution?
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freedentstheone
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 7:34amVERCEOFREASON – You’re right, it’s not only about what is on the outside… and it’s what is inside that completely destroys your argument. Unless the person is born with an outright trisomy for chromosome 23 (that’s XXY), then the person is biologically and anatomically male or female. The incidence of that condition is extraordinarily rare. No matter what the person “identifies as”, every single cell in their body identifies them according to their genetic makeup. In other words, there is no genetic ambiguity despite what doctors deem un- or overdeveloped genitalia at birth.
This case typifies the more common incident where a person is born absolutely normal and psychologically wants to play out a role that they have assumed due to exposure of what it “means to be a boy or a girl” in our society. So the kid likes pink and wants to play with barbies, that doesn’t make him a girl… it makes him psychologically obsessed with activities that have been branded “girlish.” i.e. It doesn’t matter what I identify myself as, my identity is not a choice to be selected it is a state of being that I have to accept.
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Gonzo
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:09amStarting with yours Verce.
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SREGN
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:47pm“Daddy, I think I’m really a girl.”
“No you’re not.” Whack.
Repeat as necessary.
Problem goes away.
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am123
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:36pmThis is sickening and disgusting. The parents are pushing perversion on their child.
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JonSigMan
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:05amYep, i.e. committing child abuse, plain & simple.
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ierickson
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:32pmWhat two year old decides they want to be a boy or a girl? Last I knew, mature people who know right from wrong can. I thought it was the parents responsibility to mentor their children. This in my opinion is the wrong way to do it and what I mean is to start dressing the boy in girls clothing at two. These parents need to be locked up!
It’s parents like them that screw up our society and make our children messed up. Shame on them…..shame on them!
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Z
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:32pmHow the heck does a 6yr old knows that boys and girls have different parts. Major issues in that house.
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:48pmHon ,most 2 year olds know that,
especially in a family of 5 kids.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:57pmThen a kid in a family of five would also know that girls use the girls room etc…
Let the boy dress like a girl; it’s clothing and ****.
Be transgendered at home and a transvestite at school.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:06pmOoops: transvestite
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HOOT_OWL
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:20pmVerce .
just because your a horses-ass I bet none of your family dressed you up as one.
These people should be charged with child abuse and poisoning this child’s mind.
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Z
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:11amThe child didn’t buy the panties and dresses or dress HIMSELF in that attaire.
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TH777
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:13am@Verceofreason: What the heck does how many kids that belong to a family have to do with this?? If you have Male parts you go to a mens bathroom. If you have female parts you go to a womens bathroom. I posted something similar to this earlier but apparently The Blaze thought that what I had posted was wrong since it never showed up in the comments. But I don’t care how The Blaze feels. If God created you with women’s parts then, surprise, surprise….You are a women. If He created you with mens parts, surprise, surprise….you are a man. Life’s a b___ch. You just have to deal with it. Should we let perverts who use the “transgender” excuse to use the bathroom of their choice??? I don’t think so!
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EODGhost
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:31pmUh…More nonsense. He’s 6, and somehow the parents think he is mature enough and cognizant enough to make grownup decisions? I hope they are not having anymore children for their sake. Where is child protective services?
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Warriorswife
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:06amIt’s trending nowdays to be publicly acknowledged as “Tolerant”, “Diverse”, and Politically Correct” (Brangelina) It’s obvious that the mom anyway is in need of attention and needs to be publicly identified as all of the above. There is no need to make your child famous at 6 for being different. Her child is now absolutely labeled as trans-gendered, not as Coy. He will most likely be confronted constantly now thanks to his parents propelling him into public exposure.
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chips1
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 12:55pmDo I detect big changes at the White House?
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media-bias-steals-elections
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:31pmIf I was the state attorney general, I would have those parents on charges of child abuse, if the boy is a boy, he’s a boy, period, anything else is emotional abuse by the parents that should be stopped immediately, to include a court ordered therapy session to reverse the preventable damage they caused to their own child?
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ierickson
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:34pmAmen!
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oldguy49
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:36pmwhack it off.problem solved
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:43pmlike okay.
Get her a baseball glove.
That’s will ‘cure’ her.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:04pmIt’s not –even– about a “cure”.
The child knows he’s different than other boys and different than girls; the mother said so.
~~>So, what’s the big deal about Coy using the boy’s room??? Aren’t there toilets in them too?
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qualityrkc
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:35amYou call for professional therapy to help the parents but seem to dismiss the professional therapist who diagnosed the child as being transgendered. Can you say cognative dissonance? Clearly, you have some prejudices that don’t allow youb to analyze this story well and the same goes for most of the posters I see here. Leave the homophobia at the door bc this issue is real and kis and parents have to deal with it. You don’t think this has been hard for those parents? I hope you never have a family member born transgendered though I think it would be a good learning experience for a lot of you ignorant bible thumpers.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:34amRKC, any “Psychotherapist” that actually diagnoses a 6 yr old boy as “transsexual” should lose his license. Of course he’s easily dismissed.
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MK2
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:27pm17 year old transgender high school student gets in touch with his masculine side and rapes female student in girls restroom.Thats what I see coming in a few years
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:41pmOr, maybe he’ll figure out that he’s gay; and be a gentle and thoughtful young man.
~>Obviously, Coy knows he is “different”. -His mother said so; publicaly.
Either way, he belongs in the boys room or the private one the school offered. (period)
>Body parts are body parts.
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Xylliab_of_the_Znarghh
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:49amIf you let all of the 17-year old male to female transgender students go to the girls’ room, one of them might rape a girl some day, but if you make them go to the boys’ room, all of them will get raped by a boy every day.
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PalmettoColdiron
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:27pmIt must be very difficult for the child, however your sex is based on anatomy not feelings. I would livid if I was to find out that a little boy was in the girls restroom at the same time my daughter was. I also feel environment affects children more than anything. I was a single father with custody from the time my daughter was 1 1/2 until she was almost 6. It was not until I remarried she became interested in the stereotypical female activities. She spent her time with dad fishing, fixing and doing other “guy” stuff. It may be possible that the child is doing what he thinks will make his parents happy.
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nomemymine
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:37pmTotally right. I only know two gay guys, both grew up with lots of sisters only.
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:49pmThat’s not true.
The child has the hormones and brain of a girl.
Oh, that’s right, this is the anti-science crowd.
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PalmettoColdiron
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:06pmIt is so predictively beautiful that anytime a lib disagrees with you it is because you do not believe in science.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:09pmVerceofreason
That’s not true.
The child has the hormones and brain of a girl.
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And that is why the penus & scrotum developed, right?
You are so stupid.
I read a case where a person did not have a receptor for androgen. Everyone thought the person had 2 X chromosomes until puberty hit & for some reason they started standing up to pee. then the doctors figured out the biological problem.
If there is so much females hormone as Verce claims (or hopes), Coy would not have developed male parts.
BTW is coy a male name or even a female name? Or are the freaking parents being COY about their ulterior motives?
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patrioteveryman
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:13pmVerce, you actually have access to this child’s medical records? or are you just interjecting you’re own lack of science into this.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:13pmAnd what does a child do if an hermaphrodite…. androgynous ?
>Pick a bathroom, pick a lockerroom that makes the function of the room easiest.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:16am“And what does a child do if an hermaphrodite…. androgynous ?” – spirited
Spirited acts as though that happens every other birth.
Yes, it is a discussion we need to have, but the LGBT crowd is the wrong one to bring it up. They have ulterior motives among other things.
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00100111
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:36amVerce, that’s hilarious. The libs on this site on this very story are the ones ignoring science. Take some biology, anatomy, and genetics classes. Real classes, not the ones that just ask you how it feels.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:24pmA wee bit selfish –eh?
Naturally Coy’s parents want what they think is best for their child.
However, they are only concerned with what their child feels –and thinks.
They want Coy to feel –whatever is– normal. That’s wonderful.
But, talk about potentially confusing, and waaaay too much information for the other kids.
Wishing the best of luck, true frienships and much happiness to Coy.
But ~~>When Coy no longer has male genetalia, the girl’s room and locker room welcome her.
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Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:34pmHi Spirited:
The problem is a 6 year old doesn’t know what they want. And just because a psychologist is saying that doesn’t mean the good Dr is right. How many Dr.s are quacks. At this age they need to teach their son, not give into his whims.
I remember my son at that age really wanting to learn Karate, I told him I will buy him the gear and lessons, but he had to sign a contract that he would stick with it for one year. He agreed and I made my wife agree also, sure enough after 2 months he said he was bored with it and didn’t want to go anymore, I pulled out the contract and told him, “you gave me your word, I am going to hold you to your promise” I made him stick it out for a year, and then asked him, You can quit now if you want, he stuck with Karate for the next 8 years and only quit when he football and tennis became more important. Now he learned and that is what parents jobs are, to teach your children lasting lessons, not give in to their whims.
Sorry for the rant, but these kind of parents drive me nuts, it seems they want to be friends with their kids, not parents.
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Xanderson
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:40pmThat’s what I was just thinking! Girl’s restroom? No! That would be for little girls–I am thinking back to when my very young nephew got a huge kick out of putting his Grandma’s clip-on earrings whenever he saw them…sure glad my brother and sister-in-law didn’t call any advocacy groups and psychologists to diagnose him as pre-pubescent-transgender-identity! Good God, let the poor kid grow up with love and support and don’t make freak show out of him. He’s 6!!!!!!
Oh, and if it was my son I’d hold off on the Honey Boo Boo glamour shots for a few years!
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:52pmHello DARMOK:^)
Couldn’t agree more.
…. is that mommy’s natural red ****?
XANDERSON: Honey poo poo shots! -lol ….. so true.
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DZ-015
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 1:59amSpirited: “A wee bit selfish, eh?” In the context of this article, that is priceless!
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banjarmon
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:21pmWhat a sad way to ruin an kid…
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pandora665
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:20pmI find it highly troubling that the behavior was encouraged at four years old. The child is not at a stage in their cognitive development or socialization to fully comprehend gender roles or to make a decision regarding gender association.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:32pmThe mother said, “our other children”.
Wonder if there is a real statistic about transgendered children, in terms of, if they are an only child, children, an eldest child, a middle child, the youngest child.
If so, that may be helpful in better assessing IF transgendered is a natural phenominan (so to speak).
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:20pm“There’s no consensus on how to treat it in somebody Coy’s age because of a lack of data on the disorder in prepubescent children. Research suggests that many children gradually become “comfortable with their natal gender,” an APA task force reported in 2011. But the goal of any treatment should be to help the child adjust to its reality, the APA said.” -Vancouver Sun
But the Transgender Legal Defence & Education Fund will insists on messing Coy Mathis up.
Maybe Coy caught the cues as a 1 year old or younger that his sister got doted on more. I have seen it happen before.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:18pmDidn’t see your post until now.
>You said what I so (poorly) tried to.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:19am“You said what I so (poorly) tried to.”
It happens to me too. I have actually copied posts here for letter reference & use. They had either insights or better expository writing than I.
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usmc1063
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:19pmJust when you think you have heard it all Libs come up with this. Just what does a six year old know about female body parts let alone being uncomfortable in their body. What is wrong with these people? No wonder this country is going down the moral cess-pool.
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Joshua81
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:15pmTake this child away. These “parents” are disgusting and lazy.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:30pmShush! Moderation_is_Best will be here any minute to correct you & all the rest of us. After all she is a more enlightened being & will tell us all that we are “racist, sexists, bigots, homophobes”.
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Verceofreason
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:51pmHow are the parents, lazy?
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Joshua81
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:12pmHow are they not??? They aren’t parenting they are allowing this child to grow up very confused. It is their job and responsibility to teach this child and raise them. Just letting a child go through life like this is LAZY.. “we noticed at 18 months” pleeeeeeeeeease.. it’s like, “oh its a phase they will grow out of it, and if they don’t its ok.” NO its not okay. What will happened if the kids starts slapping other kids around? Are they going to just say, “its just a phase, this is how they express themselves when they are upset.”
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Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:14pmI guess when Mommy is a dominating she-ra, and his fatther is a ball-less unich, this is the offspring you get. The kid is going to be a future Washington DC Intern for some congressman from Boston. Sad.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:22pmHe did look effete if plump. I would like to know more about him including his job, hobbies & how he relates to people. You are probably right; the wife dominates him.
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Nlitend1
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:37pmHonest question: Do you know a lot about this subject or do you just make really cruel judgments about subjects that you know nothing about?
Honestly, has your life come down to attacking random people who are different than you?
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Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:44pmNo, just people who’s name starts with N.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:13pmNlitend1
Nothing random about this. As far as attacking is concerned, I prefer excommunication or ostracism to attacking after other means have been tried.
There is no celebrating this. It is insane which comes from the Latin sanus meaning health. This is literally unhealthy & you want us to celebrate it.
You are one sick puppy.
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Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:28pm@Nlitend1
A serious answer to your question. I have some cousins that mentally crippled their son with this kind of parenting, they were Hippies, always filled their son with wierd ideas, for a year, when he was about 4, they dressed him in girls clothes to get him to see what it was like to be a girl, the kid grew up so screwed up in the head, he ended up becoming a drug addict and was killed in a car crash when he was 24. Both of my cousins were to blame for screwing him up so bad, he was picked on at school and just couldn’t get along with anyone. That is why I look at these two and have such a strong opinion. I know what they are going to do to this kid. So I hope this helps you understand a little where I am coming from.
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SpankDaMonkey
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:13pm.
Somebody needs to lock up that kids parents up…..
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civilwarcometh
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:23pmThis is sickening…
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GBTVFan_Non_American_Overseas
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:26pmCan we beat them first?….pretty pleeeease!!!
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mtsnj
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:11pmOh my god these parents need to be neutered
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Walkabout
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:26pmThe father was. A lavender shirt with metro sexual grooming & soft & pudgy all the way around.
Maybe he needs to have some paternity tests conducted on his(?) kids.
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John655
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 2:28am@ Walkabout
You nailed it. I was thinking that she must be keeping his nuts in her night stand because he apparently doesn’t have any. Notice how he kept looking at his wife and nodding while she talked like any dutiful political wife does while her husband is announcing his illicit homosexual affair?
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Walkabout
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:24amJohn655
“while she talked like any dutiful political wife does while her husband is announcing his illicit homosexual affair?”
I was not going to go there. It had crossed my mind. Maybe I am too timid or afraid I am wrong, but that is what my gut told me. That is why I suggested there would be paternity tests conducted in other posts. Paternity tests would confirm a lot to the whole world.
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ColoradoMaverick
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:11pmThese parents should be ashamed of themselves. Certainly, some children struggle with their sexual identity, but to put them in this position and make it so public will have a very negative impact on the child. If you must, set up a private meeting with the school to allow the child to use a gender neutral teachers bathroom.
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spirited
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:26pmBingo! ding,ding ,ding –Prize!!!
Certainly Coy looked happy to be in front of the small crowd and camera\
… hearing Mommy say he’s different.
Doesn’t every kid want to be made a spectacle for being “different”; followed up with “special”. Please.
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MS02134
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:36amThese kinds of programs help educate people that LGBT folks are pretty much like the rest of us. They take care of their families, they pay taxes, they volunteer in the community, and make the world a better place. They’re not the horrible people that the media used to suggest that they were. It’s good that LGBT people are no longer content to hide in the closet, and are now willing confront ignorant people to demand that they’re not going to be relegated to second-class status any longer.
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Walkabout
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 9:32amEveryone wants to be special to be though of well. The root word special comes from the same root as specific. We are all special to our families and that is the way it should be. It makes for happy people if it does properly & sincerely.
It is sick for someone wanting to be special to all people for all time. Like when certain megalomaniac Roman emperors wanted to worshiped as Gods.
Mohammed was onto something when he advocated for nondescript burials for everyone. I think there is a lot to that. It is one of the things I like about Islam. But it should not be forced like the cursed & damn_d jihadis blowing up tombs. There is something good about marking a burial place. There is something gaudy & off with trying to have the biggest one in the cemetery.
Yes people are special. Coy is special. But how Coy & the parents are going about it is wrong. It is like having overweening pride.
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Aldo
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:05pmThis is patently insane. Only a lib could come up with this. The kid doesn’t have a chance
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Fonz777
Posted on February 28, 2013 at 8:33amRight. But does it ever make Katie’s halo glow. I don’t remember her getting that excited about Sara Palin’s kids, etc. “Love me, love my perversion” I guess.
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smwk
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:05pmpoor kid!
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right-wing-waco
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:11pmSuch confusion. How much of this is the parents?
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crueltiming
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:26pmsmells like the parents are going to milk this for all it’s worth.Can you say “balloonboy”?Reality show payday.Makes me sick to see what’s happening to my ‘colorful’.
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GBTVFan_Non_American_Overseas
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:28pmWaco,
All of it!!!….100000%
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The Jewish Avenger
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 10:33pmdefinitely all of it.
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Pontiaku
Posted on February 27, 2013 at 11:01pmThat’s going to be one ugly Neuter in the future.
Seeing as how that’s the only thing you can trans-into.
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