Baby With Down Syndrome Takes the Modeling World By Storm
- Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:01am by
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Image Credit: Bruce Adams/Daily Mail
Taya Kennedy isn’t your average baby model. The 14-month-old has a beautiful smile and a twinkle in her eye, which is why it‘s no surprise that she’s been a major success in the kid-modeling world. But it is the fact that she has Down Syndrome that separates her from other young models her age.
There’s simply something unique and inspiring about Taya.
“Taya is an incredibly photogenic, warm and smiley child, and that shines through in her photographs,” explains Alysia Lewis, the owner of Urban Angels, the UK modeling agency that signed the child.
Lewis explains that the agency only selects a few new children to work with each season. With standards remaining quite high, Taya was one of about 50 kids who were inevitably selected from a pool of about 2,000 applicants.
According to Lewis, the fact that Taya has Down Syndrome didn‘t play a role in the company’s decision to take her as a model. “She was just what we were looking for,” Lewis explains.
Major retailers have already worked with Taya, who is described as bright and easy to photograph (her mother claims that she rarely cries). Her bubbly disposition is evident in the pictures that are taken of her.
Image Credit: Bruce Adams/Daily Mail
Gemma Andre, Taya’s mother, is ecstatic about her young daughter’s success. She explains that she has always thought her baby was “stunning,” but she explains, “I’m her mum. I’m biased.”
But when the agency called with interest in her daughter, her suspicions were confirmed: Taya is an adorable young child with much to offer the modeling world.
Andre isn’t a stage mom, either. See, she‘s elated over her daughter’s career because successfully competing with the other children to gain Urban Angels’ attention shows that the young child has the ability to be on par with her peers — something that serves as a comfort to parents of Downs children.
“People can be really negative about children with Downs. They say they can’t do this and won’t be able to achieve that. It’s incredibly frustrating,” Andre explains. “Someone said to me the other day: ‘I suppose she’ll never be able to live an independent life,’ and I said, ‘Why on earth not?’”
Andre explains how offensive it can be when people come to her and show sympathy over her daughter’s condition. Rather than lamenting Taya’s Downs, she says, “The way I see it, some people cannot even have children and God has given me this special child.”
Image Credit: Bruce Adams/Daily Mail
Andre will not allow Taya to be limited by her disability. She holds lofty goals for her daughter and plans to see her fulfill them. Following the child’s birth, Andre says that she was told about all of the things her daughter would never be able to do. But she refuses to allow this list to dictate Taya’s future. The young child has already defied so many odds; modeling is only the beginning.
“I am determined Taya will have as many chances in life as any other child,” says Andre. “I want her to go to dancing school. She loves music and has a sense of rhythm; she sways and claps her hands when I sing to her.”
And the inspiration doesn’t end there.
“I’m already saving for her to have driving lessons. I have a fund for her to go to university,” she explains. “I want to prove to Taya that any goal in life is attainable. It doesn’t matter that she has Down Syndrome. She can still achieve. I want her to be an inspiration to others.”
Already, this child‘s smile is enough to brighten anyone’s day.
(H/T: Mail Online)
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ExpectGreatThings
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:25amPraying for RFYCOM to let go of his anger and for this little girl to continue on this road of success.
Report Post »I am really sorry to hear that you and your family have had such a hard time, RFYCOM. I know that none of us on here could really understand your situation, but I just feel like I need to say that with all of your experience and knowledge of caring for a down syndrom child, you could really be helping and uplifting others. Maybe knowing that you could make others’ lives a little easier would make you less angry at the situation. I’m not interested in arguing, just want to encourage, if I can.
mombomb
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 2:15pmHer smile says it all. She will always appreciate….too bad the spoiled kid’s at OWS do not have the same appreciation for their own special talents and abilities…the world would be a much happier place.
Report Post »The_Fox
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:55pmAnyone else get the feeling that RYFCOM is full of B.S.? In an earlier post, he refers to this little girl as an “it”; he claims he has a son that is “handicapped” (most people now say “disabled” these days) and he cries all day long; he’s a caregiver AND a job creator…
And after all of his diatribe posts, one thing is very clear, he is an angry person; not conducive to the caregiver type. I think he’s just making up a story to rattle other readers and posters. Don’t bother to give this loon another minute of attention he is so desperately seeking here.
Report Post »LeadNotFollow
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:14pmI too, am praying for RFYCOM. This man is really hurting. I’m wondering if his child would cry less, if RFYCOM’s attitude toward life would change. Get that chip off his shoulder. No one has fun at a “pity party”. A child can sense tension, resentment, and anger. A parent who has a positive attitude, gives a child a sense of comfort and belonging. A sense of being wanted. I understand that his child has no mother. Every child deserves to have a mother’s love. RFYCOM, please don’t ever think that you could have done so much more with your life, if it were not for being tied down by a handicapped child. This isn‘t true in anyone’s case. No one would have been anything more than they are now. The most important thing you will ever do in your life, is love and care for your child. When you look into the eyes of your child, you are seeing God’s most precious creation.
RFYCOM, there are people in your neighborhood who would help you and your child, if you just reach out to them. Don’t try to carry the burden of the world on your shoulders. Look deep within yourself. Ask yourself, what am I doing, that drives people away. Are you a drug addict, a heavy drinker and/or a chain smoker? Do you grumble and curse constantly? Do you blame everyone but yourself, for the situation you’re in? Do you have a house full of pets, that aren’t fed and/or cleaned up after? Are you lazy? Have you borrowed and not repaid so much money and/or items from people, that you are known in you
Report Post »LeadNotFollow
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:21pmHave you borrowed and not repaid so much money and/or items from people, that you are known in your neighborhood as “the moocher”? There are numerous reasons that will drive people away, who would normally jump right in to help.
God helps those, who help themselves. I’ve always believed, to have a friend, you must be a friend. You must give as much as you take. It can’t be “poor little me” all the time. A depressing person wears people down, physically and emotionally. I have severely handicapped people in my family. It’s the love of God, faith, and a positive attitude, that makes it all bearable. I’ve always looked at handicapped people as a gift from God. They were put here to test our faith and strength. To teach us love, humility, and patience. RFYCOM, have you tried getting down on your knees, and asking God for guidance? Tell him, you and your child are his children, and you need his divine intervention. You want to be a better person. You would like a good night of restful sleep, for both you and your child. You want joy in your heart. You want to smile again.
I wish you and your child much happiness. You are both in my prayers. Don’t worry about tomorrow, God will provide.
Report Post »angelcat
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:06amI can’t help but worrying about RYFCOM and his grown child. RYFCOM is afraid for his child and it is coming out in his anger and bitterness. It seems from his comments that they are not getting the support they need. I’m sure RYFCOM loves his child and the fear is effecting his attitude. I hope the child doesn’t pick up on that fear and anger. RYFCOM, all we can do is say a prayer for you and hope you can find the help you and your child need. Remember that not all parents of special children feel as you do. Many, like this lady, see them as a gift, not a burden. I hope everything works out for you and your child.
Report Post »Moozmom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:05amFor those of you concerned about using your dollars to pay for this child’s medical care-don’t worry; she probably won’t live to adult hood. So many do not and while they are here we need to experience what the offer. If you do not understand what they offer, please do some praying.
Report Post »Capitalist Mama
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 10:12amDo you have any idea what you are talking about!? Down Syndrome is not fatal! It’s a genetic abnormality. Go buy a clue.
Report Post »carlitamonique
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 12:21pmum hate to break it to you but it kinda is fatal… DS babies have a shorter life span and develop Alzheimer at a very young age not to mention all the congenital anomalies the heart perhaps being the most important one. i think someone else now has to buy a clue.
Report Post »Dr. CM
raydg
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 12:40pmSorry, I will disagree very much so. You sound like what I hear in Russia where I live. That Down kids will die in their mid-20′s. Here in Russia it is the case and so it was the case in the US many, many years ago. Now people with Down live a long life just as anyone else can. I know this as I did heavy research as my daughter was born with Down Syndrone. She is now four and we are moving to the US in the next few months as soon as my step-daughter graduates from school. I am a US Citizen by birth and so is my daughter. My wife and step-daughter are Russians.
Report Post »COFemale
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:18pmFirst is depends on the severity of Down Syndrome and other mitigating factors the child my have been born with.
The actual life expectancy:
“Adults with DS and good self-help skills (mobility, self-feeding) could be expected to live into their 50s, while those with poor self-help skills were expected to live into their 40s.” per Len Leshin, MD, FAAP at
http://www.ds-health.com/faq.htm. He goes on to state this ” However, it would be foolish to predict how long a baby born now with DS would live as so many things can change for them medically and socially in the next decades.”
Many people see someone with Down Syndrome as someone to be pitied; the only pity I see is your stupidity and views on people with this condition.
My former in-laws adopted a baby at 4 months old with brain damage as the mother was a crack head. Tammy is still alive and about 36 years old; she is in a home now because my in-laws have passed. Doctors said Tammy would never learn anything, yet when she was five years old, she knew colors and she learned the alphabet; Tammy was also sent to school. So the moral to this story, DOCTORS CAN BE WRONG!
Report Post »LadyLibertykicksASS
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:40pmI have a next door neighbor who was born with Downs Syndrome, he is 65 yrs old and lives with his Mom who is 94….I expect he’ll be around along time. The extended family helps out when needed!.
Report Post »LeadNotFollow
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 5:19pmMy cousin has Downs Syndrome, and he’s nearly 40 years old. Sure, he’s had health problems since the day he was born, just like all DS people.
He’s just as happy as always. He is a blessing and a joy every day. He is so loved. We can’t imagine life without him. He’s not a burden on the family or society.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 8:24amMan, your knowledge of Down Syndrome is from the 50′s. I met a man with Down Syndrome who was in his 60′s. My son is 21. I have had to fight people like you his whole life….”yea, but what about quality of life?“ ”But he only has a few years, enjoy it while you can.” He has a heart condition, born with a hole in his heart so big he didn’t have a murmer … 21 YEARS AGO. He’s doing well, and they are amazed every year that his heart isn’t enlarged. There are some chromosone disorders with short life spans, but Down Syndrome is not one of them.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 8:27am@COFemale
You are so right. I had a 3rd cousin who was born with only the brain stem. The doctors told her parents (my 2nd cousins) to just let her die, starve her. They refused. She lived to be about 37, when she died from complications of pneumonia. She got to be about like a 5 year old. She was one of the happiest children I had ever met. I‘m sure that was partly due to the loving parents she had that wouldn’t just let her die.
Report Post »Mandors
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:05amI personally think stunts like this are lame, but if it can draw some attention to special needs children then I suppose it does some good. This issue is obviously more complicated then simply saying “awe, isn’t that down syndrome child cute” then walking away. The “lively” dialog on this thread is proof, but, again, at least we’re talking about it.
Report Post »mils
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:46amI don’t see it as a “stunt’…I see it as sharing a wonderful smiling child with the world. Any, any, mental , physical disorder takes a toll on a family. This lady has chosen to go a different route..and I applaud her. PLUS..I applaud the agency that hired this child..a big step.
Report Post »It cannot cannot cannot be easy to have a child that you consider a “burden”.
RightUnite
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 10:55amStunt? Is that the best you can do?? Epic fail dude. Try again!
Report Post »COFemale
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:00pmDear Lord, please bless Mandors with the brains you gave him; allow him to throw off the shackles of stupidity and Progressive thought so he may see the light.
Report Post »DarthMims
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:05amThose pictures got me off to a good start this morning. I don’t see how anyone can help but smile when they see that face.
Report Post »Nlitend1
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:06amyou should really proofread your phrasing, you sound like a pedophile.
Report Post »angelcat
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:08amI agree. Just looking at the pictures started my morning out on a positive note – not because she is a Downs’ syndrome child, but just because she is a beautiful child whose smile lights up her whole demeanor and radiates warmth and love.
Report Post »trolltrainer
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 12:49pmnlitend1:
you should really proofread your phrasing, you sound like a pedophile.
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You just revealed yourself as the sick mind because only someone who actually entertains thoughts like pedophilia could extract such a meaning from the original post. You see a sick world because you are sick.
Report Post »COFemale
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:33pmWell Nlitend1, if you’d get your mind out of the gutter, his statement would not be a problem. I apparently did not read the sentence the same way you did. Perhaps you should clean out your mind.
Report Post »minorityconservative2
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:02am@RFYCOM
You need to go away and get some help! JESUS help!
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:00amSorry to disappoint you guys but I am not a occupier I am a job creator.
Report Post »In Charge
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 10:27amYou also a bs artist…..if you done all you claimed to have done and created jobs, the Psychiatric hospitals HAS increase their occupancy WITH YOUR PRESENCE. I know you are also the guy sitting in the White house too. (hahaha)
Report Post »RightUnite
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 12:57pmKind of hard to be a job creator, when you spend so much time taking care of your child.
Report Post »jaylew
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 7:33amDude…you are not the only person who has a special needs family member….you prove to me that you pay 5 thousand dollars a month for your kids medication and I’ll believe a word you say…otherwise you are reduced to a bitter atheist..your drivel is not only whiny and miserable..but worse…your “I am the only crucified one” posture is unbecoming even for the most uneducated of atheists. Like what would you say to someone whose kid flops around like a fish from seizures all day and night? For you to hijack this positive and uplifting post is not only selfish on your part…..it is downright proof that your current take on life itself is one of emptiness, misery and frankly a whole bunch of crap. If your kid bothers you so much then why don’t you just kill yourself and let someone happy take care of him or her? You could hardly be a good roommate much less a parent. I can see the scowl on your mug all the way from here. Go away and find another post to hijack….some topic where other atheists thrive and prosper in…perhaps a nice post on famine in Africa would give you fodder to rail against God and whatever else is stuck up your a$$. You are pathetic man. Seriously. A complete empty miserable waste of breath. Now was that enough venom for you to wallow in this morning or would you like some more? Because believe me….there‘s lot’s more where that came from..You are hardly the sole proprietor of “woe is me”….but most of us prefer to take the high road.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:57amPEOPLE – let me tell you who I am. I am the man who would not allow the state to put my handicapped son in a state hospital. I am the man who takes care of him while he cries 12 hours a day. I am the man who will not give up and will never comment him. I am the man who’s wife could not deal with him and left. I am the man who worries about what happens when the medicaid goes away. His meds are $5K a month. I am the man who worries about what happens when I die. Who will take care of him. Will his sister step up and dedicate her life to 12 hour days of constant crying? THat is who I am. Handicapped people are treated like dirt.
Report Post »NHwinter
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:06amRfycom – My heart goes out to you. You sound like a good man with a tremendous burden on your shoulders. We cannot know how you feel unless we have walked in your shoes. Is there a church or group that can help you?
Report Post »demint.disciple
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:07am@ RFYCOM.. Weird how can you write and spend all day on the blaze arguing with people of your “woe is me” life if he is crying in your ear ? You have a chip on your shoulder.. I can bet it’s because your wife left you.. BTW , I‘m sure your wife didn’t leave you because of the kid she left you because you’re a whinny little baby with a “ the whole world and God ” is against me attitude..
NHwinter
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:24amDeMint – Just to clarify, I don’t beleive in abortion. Every life has a purpose, hidden as it may be.
Report Post »Sara72
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:28amRFYCOM…. God bless you and prayers for your family.Amazing father and strength shown here. <
Report Post »sister1_rm
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:30amThat’s a little bit more clear, thank you for correcting us. I’m sorry for what I said earlier. You have it hard, but so do all people. Everyone struggles. Everyone has pain. Some give up in fear and despair. Some keep going, but remain bitter through the whole journey. And some choose to enjoy the journey no matter how hard the road. No mortal human knows what it’s like to be you. No other person on Earth knows your hardships and certainly no one on this website knows your “grown up child” who cries 12 hours a day.
I know there is a God and I know he will bless you for the great love you have in caring for this severely handicapped child, even though it’s hard and most of the rest of humanity would have given up were they in your position. You showed love and mercy to one of his children and he will show love and mercy to you, even if you don’t believe in him today; and one day, you will be given the chance to see who your child really is, what kind of spirit was locked inside a body with a broken mind.
If you think I’m nuts, that’s fine. My first impression of you was almost the same.
Report Post »Nlitend1
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:15amIt’s a bad situation and I (abstractly) feel bad for you…like you were a character in a sad movie. after reading all of the comments you wrote, I think you realize that you are among many in this situation, and I like that you make it less abstract for some of these readers. Everyone here talks with global sweeping sentiment, they all hate the government and demonize the libs for creating it, but no one ever acknowledges that the government has a role in protecting those too vulnerable to save themselves. This is why conservatives are often called heartless (while libs are called insane).
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:18amLet me tell you who I am. I am the woman who has taken care of a beautiful Down Syndrome/autistic son for 21 years. I am the woman who has another child, 12 who is EXTREMELY ADHD and gifted, who had to watch him pass up his brother when he was 7! when there is a 9 year age difference. I am the woman who, dealing with cancer, still had to take care of a handicapped child. I am the woman, who while dealing with cancer and a handicapped child, had a husband break his leg and be out of work for 2 months when we were barely getting by in the first place. Get a life and play the cards you were dealt. God doesn’t make mistakes, maybe he just had too much faith in you. You don‘t sound like you’re handling it very well to me. Everything is a lesson, even what appears to be a tragedy. Handicapped people may be treated like dirt, but it’s another learning lesson…..how you deal with it is being watched, and if you’re a godly person, can be a witness.
Report Post »NightWriter
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 2:02pm@RFYCOM
Please, please look into respit care. In this program, a qualified caregiver comes to your home to care for your child, while you take some time to yourself. These programs are invaluable to both the parent and the child… are provided by churches and local charities… at no cost to you.
Your frustration seems born of fatigue, and justifiably so. A step away from the situation, and a breath of fresh air – if only for a short time – would be a Godsend to both you and your child.
Please consider respit… and may God bless.
Report Post »PlzGodMakeHimStop
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:06pm@RFYCOM
Report Post »You said “PEOPLE – let me tell you who I am. I am the man who would not allow the state to put my handicapped son in a state hospital. ” So, let me get this straight. You may not have chosen to have a handicapped child, but you chose to take care of him yourself? And now you’re angry? Because you think the Medicaid may run out? The Medicaid paid for by the taxpayers of the United States. You feel entitled to this money? I have empathy for you and your son, and I believe folks should help one another, but I shouldn’t have to pay for a choice you made.
COFemale
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:56pmRFYCom I read your story twice and never once did I hear you say, “ I hold my child even though he constantly cries”. “It breaks my heart that I can’t take the tears away”. “I am the one who feeds and clothes him.“ ” I am the one who stays up all night when he is sick”. You don’t tell us how old is the child or maybe I missed it and it is in another post.
Did you get handed a lousy hand when your wife left, absolutely. Do you have a choice in how you react? Absolutely. Did it occur the vibes you are sending your handicapped child may be the cause of him crying all the time? If your child does not feel loved or you raise your voice at him/her they will cry.
If you have this attitude with us in this forum, then this is the same feelings your child is sensing. Children can sense when they are not wanted, I should know. I never felt I was love from my mother. Never once did I hear “I love you”. She is dead now and I have moved on. I have forgiven her; have you forgiven your wife?
I urge you to find groups or other parents who have handicapped children such as yours. They can help you cope and deal with the ins and outs of caring for a handicapped child. I can’t even begin to know what you feel or what you are dealing with, but if you don’t get your anger in check; you could actually send yourself to an early grave and then where would your child be?
Report Post »walkintruth
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:21pmI feel for you and know how afraid you are. I also have a child with special needs. I often think about who will care for her when I am gone. I can’t ask my other children to do it. We don’t have a lot of money to care for her so it is a concern.
The only comfort I can give you is to trust in God. He will see you through it. He has a plan and if you start to believe and trust in him he will show you. Just like what happened with this little girl. I can’t believe God would give me this child for no reason. I can’t believe that she will be left uncared for. I must believe that something good will come from it. So as hard as it may seem, have faith.
I pray for you and your family. May you be blessed.
Report Post »freedom1656
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 7:21pmFirst I want to say I completely understand the way you feel, from the age of 2 I was diagnosed with cerebral palsy and by the grace of god I learned to live with it and got by pretty well then at 29 found out I had multiple sclerosis so I went from not using my healthcare all that much to having to depend on it but if there is one thing I know for sure is when you ask god to help you he will because when you are at the end of your rope and say “I have done everything I know how to do I give up” he says “it’s about time now I can help”
Report Post »The-Monk
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:03pm@demint.disciple
Report Post »You are despicable.
The-Monk
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:13pm@demint.disciple
Report Post »Goodbye Demint-ed one. Your posting days under the “demint.disciple” account are over.
elihu
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:46am@RFYCOM: You are certainly one hateful person. Why don’t you go crawl back in that hole in which you live?
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:51amIt’s called reality. I get mad when people who know NOTHING about the handicapped pretend they do. Stand up and help these people if you have a heart and stop pretending. Remember, God is watching you.
Report Post »Planet Bob
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:58am@RFYCOM I would rather pay for her health care than to pay for the other wasteful gov’t programs out there… Solyndra, Cow Farts, African Genitalia Cleaning….. Thanks Chuck for making my day.
Also remember, but for the grace of God, you or a loved one are just one accident away from dependence.
Report Post »Beckaj
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:45amBeautiful.
Report Post »TheVoice1
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:36amThat smile says it all….
Report Post »sandy21957
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:41amShe needs a T-shirt that says “I’m the 10%”. 90% of downs baby don’t have birthdays.
Report Post »beaubird
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:39amrfycom needs to see a shrink !!! You must have something to deal with bro!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Report Post »sister1_rm
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:36amOh, What a sweetheart! I don’t see how anyone that child smiles at could feel sorry for her. There is more to life than a cost/benefit ratio. This child has Down’s Syndrome and seems completely unconcerned about her condition. Her mother seems at peace with it and has accepted with love the child He has given her. To be honest, it’s going to be a challenge, but that’s part of the reward in life: it’s being given a challenge and overcoming it, or watching your child struggle with something, and then succeed. So what if it takes longer for her to reach the “developmental milestones”. She’s not in a hurry. She’s loving life one step at a time, so should we.
Report Post »Susie40
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:11pmAs the grandmother of a multi-handicapped girl, I can assure you, you cannot know what it is like unless you walk a mile in those shoes. Taya too is a beautiful gift from God. She has the ability to bring more joy over the smallest of things and more pleasure in her smiles than many who take their kids for granted.
My granddaughter lived 13 years. She suffered snide remarks, ignorance and completely unloving individuals in many areas. Particularly in the forced public school arena. In other areas, she brought great joy. She was even a bridesmaid to one of her therapists. She and another girl, both in wheelchairs were who that therapist wanted in her wedding.
Though she suffered a great many physical crises in her lifetime, she always smiled. God had indeed blessed her family and all who loved her. We miss her greatly.
Personally, I think the trick is to accept the gifts God gives us, and learn from them and live with them with all the joy we can find. We will always come out ahead in the long run.
Report Post »1956
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:31amGod humbles us by giving us a child who is a blessing and joy. I have a feeling Taya will be teaching all of us a lot more about who we are (and are not) as she grows up. She may not grow up to be a brain surgeon (and neither will either of my kids, judging by the fact that one has issues with depth perception and the other has a strong “ick” factor) but Taya will be a success because her mom refuses to pigeon hole her into a stereotype. The world is this child’s oyster.
Thank you, God, for this precious little angel.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:35amAs the father of a handicapped child you people make me sick.
Report Post »SLARTIBARTFAST
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:40amWell said, and Amen!
Report Post »SLARTIBARTFAST
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:45amI just replied to 1956′s original comment and wrote “Well said, and Amen!” without specifying it was in answer to 1956′s post. Then with horror I saw RFYCOM’s hateful comment come next. Please don’t think I support what RFYCOM wrote.
Report Post »demint.disciple
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:57am@RFYCOM.. Wow dude why don’t you just get it over with ? There are many ways to get rid of a body you know.. There is something wrong with you …
Report Post »valarie
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 5:19pmWhat’s a “strong ”ick” factor? Does that mean that your child doesn’t like icky, bloody stuff? I think others are getting the wrong idea about your post lol!
Report Post »grannyjojo
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:30amA beautiful child! Children who are born with Down’s syndrome are sent to this earth straight from heaven! These precious children are generally the most happy, loving children I have ever seen in my life. What a gift from our Lord!! We should celebrate these children’s birth and their lives as I believe they are special children that the Lord has sent to us for a myriad of reasons. I have a niece who was born with Down‘s syndrome and she is now in her 40’s and is STILL such a blessing and one of the most loving people you would ever want to meet! God bless this woman for her understanding of just how special these babies are! “Every knee will bow and every tongue confess”
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:34amDoes that mean you will provide money (Taxes) to pay for this child’s medical care for the rest of her life?
Report Post »trolltrainer
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:38amYes RYFCOM! Yes, damnit! NO ONE wants to push granny over the cliff. We have ALWAYS taken care of those in need and Republican and Democrat alike want to see this continue. Everyone except maybe pure libertarians anyway…You listen to too much leftist spin. The Republicans want to fix medicare so that it CAN help people like your kid. Obama is the one who will bankrupt the program. Our health care system worked as it was, it simply needed cleaned up.
My wife is the MDS supervisor for 16 nursing homes spread throughout South Carolina, Georgia, and NC. Part of the Covenant Dove chain. It is THIS administration that is causing major reimbursement cuts and other problems. No one in the industry even knows what will be happening next month. Nursing homes are facing major cuts and losses. You want help for your child? You better elect a Republican quick because the carpet is about to be pulled out from under people in your exact situation.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:26amLet’s see how special the kid is when it is 32 and depressed with no friends and a huge burden on the family. How special will that child be then. What if the child‘s family can’t afford the medical care? What if there is no medicaid at that time? What happens when momma and daddy die? Who will take care of the child then? Who‘s burden is this child’s when it is more than the family can handle? Will the grown child live on the street? Yes handicapped children and adults can be uplifting, but believe me people what you don’t see is day after day of pure hell for a lot on mommas and daddies. It takes a village to raise a child, but who would you trust you child to in this situation? God? Which side the democrats or the republicans? Think about it.
Report Post »notreally
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:36amAnd if you become as dependant as this little girl is now…when you are 90 years old?
Choose your method: gunshot to the head, poisoning, pillow over your face for five minutes, your wheelchair pushed over a cliff? Put that in your living will.
I’ll bet this person is a flaming demcrat.
Report Post »sissykatz
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:39amRFYCOM
You do know that many or down syndrome children grow up and
can actually be productive adults. Maybe not rocket scientists but
they get married, work, and all in all a mostly normal life. I don’t
look on this child or anyother as being a burden on anyone. I’m
sure their is heartbreak sometimes that they are different but they
excell in other things and I am sure bring the parents joy.
I didn’t really understand your post….were they supposed to abort?
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:43amRight down the middle on the politics where we all should my newest and dearest friend, but I live with a grown child who has the worst form of mental illness one can have, and I worry about him and his future since he cannot take care of his self. Walk in my shoes baby doll. Where is your precious God on this one sin seeker?
Report Post »demint.disciple
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:43amSo what is you proposal ? Get them before they come out with an Abortion ? Really you should read what you wrote.. I don’t think you understood what you were writing ..
Report Post »sister1_rm
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:43amSo you‘ve looked in to your crystal ball and have seen the little girl’s future? You know she will be alone? You know she will be depressed? Or are you king of the universe and have decided her fate or punishment for daring to be born different?
Report Post »sister1_rm
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:45amMaybe RFYCOM’s having a bad day.
Report Post »Gonzo
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:47amAfter reading three of your comments, I’m starting to agree with you about God making mistakes.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:50amSister, I walk the walk everyday. I help in this area everyday. What have you done lately to help the mentally handicapped? Do you volunteer? Do donate? Do you educate yourself? Do you know how many homeless people are actually mental led handicapped? Do you know how many people are in state hospitals due to the family turning their back? Do you? Have you considered what will happen to this blessed people when there is not money from the government? Are you willing to pay taxes to help this people? Where is your God on this?
Report Post »dmforman
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:52amRFYCOM, You can‘t compare mental illness with Down’s Syndrome. It’s all on how people look at what they have. It’s about looking at the bright side of life, being grateful for what one has, and not envious of what they lack. More people should try it.
Report Post »bu11Dawg
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:54amDon’t feed the troll. Go back to occupying Wallstreet RFYCOM. I’m sorry that people find hope in this little girl, and you can’t handle it.
Report Post »NHwinter
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:58amGod doesn’t make mistakes. He wants us to learn something. Whether we do or not is up to us. My friend has a mentally handicapped adult daughter. She and her two other daughters help her all the time and when my friend dies, the daughters will take care of her. She is a beautiful artist and has contributed to society. Life doesn’t always turn out the way we hope, but we sure can learn what life is really about by being unselfish and loving. Does it call for sacrifice, sure, lots of sacrifices. Maybe with grace it will make us better people. Our reward is in the next life.
Report Post »NHwinter
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:22amDeMint – you are really hard on this man. My gosh, he has a heavy load to carry. Maybe his anger toward God is misplaced, but I understand that and so does God. Lighten up on him. We have a lot to learn from what he has written about his life and his questions to us.
Report Post »mycomet123
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:35amI fear for the safety of your child, IF, you do have a child! You seem to have ALOT of anger in your life. I fear that since( from your comments) you do not believe in God, you survive on your own power to get through the day. I hope & pray that you’re not taking your anger out on the child/dependent. I pray that God will reveal Himself to you. No need to respond, I already know what your response will be based on your comments!!
Report Post »GeeWhiz
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:52amActually, it‘s the Republicans but I don’t usually frame my comments in that way. The far left just supports abortion in the event that DS is diagnosed during pregnancy. The stats hold this to be true. Most people who are told that their child has a disability during that time, do abort and most especially with DS.
I’m not sure what you would call me politically, I don’t fit well in boxes. Probably center/right with a healthy libertarian leaning. As someone that worked a career in healthcare, and as someone that has friends/family with children who are disabled (*and at least one to the degree of your own child), I get what you’re trying to say.
Our problem as a society is that we treat all folks the same, when disabilities are really on a spectrum. I have no problem as a Rep supporting funding to make sure that your kid doesn’t end up on the street in the event of your death. I do have a problem with paying for a fully functioning 26 year old, sleeping on his parent’s couch. I have a massive problem with only half of the country paying taxes while the other half demands more of the same.
My heart breaks for your situation. I can feel more of your pain from here than the anger. The emotional toll on a person who is required to support someone who can’t care for themselves 24/7 breathtakingly enormous. I don’t doubt that I would feel the same if I were in your shoes.
I would definitely look for church support. And ironically, I’m not church goin
Report Post »GeeWhiz
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 10:20amI also want to add to my comment about going to church is that it would not just be for support for him, but because of the tremendous emotional burden that you’re carrying.
I have carried other burdens in my life alone and it can be back breaking, emotionally devastating. Again, not church going but my first thought was that you need as much support as he does.
You can only legislate money for human support. What you cannot legislate is love. Congress cannot declare that others ‘care’. Only personal relationships with people can do that.
I’d be in church. You don’t have to believe, you can start with just ‘being’. It might not help but then agan, you don’t know what it would do.
When you’re under the gun, be open to solutions, else in life you can be bulldozed by the problem.
Report Post »killertofu
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:30amWell put, Geewhiz
Report Post »Jenny Lind
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 12:23pmWhy haven’t you given your child up to be a ward of the state? Your personal misery can’t be good for the child, in fact I am sure he would be better off with someone who understood his condition and chose to make the handicapped children and adults their life’s work, instead of wallowing in self pity. Almost every family I know has some handicapped member, and I can’t think of a single one that has your attitude. Sorry you are sleep deprived and poor, but there are so many of us in the same boat that don’t have your attitude, that I can’t even feel sorry for you. Every day of our lives is a gift, if you choose to see the good you have joy-no matter what-,if you wallow in self pity you never get the good part. Your choice for you, but stop doing it to the helpless one.
Report Post »The Catbird
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 1:04pmWait a minute, hasn’t this all been proposed before under the Guise of Action T4 (Aktion T4)? I never ceased to be stunned by Humanism’s lack of humanity.
Report Post »Ogreton2003
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 2:39pmRFYCOM –
I’m sorry to hear about the pain your child is going through. My older brother had spinal meningitis when he was two and had brain damage from that and functions on about a 4th grade level, because we refused to believe that he couldn’t learn. I don’t know where you live and what kind of resources are available but my brother and mother live near Tulsa and have a great network. My brother goes to work at a workshop for handicap adults and has worked at Goodwill also. This is a great environment because he can earn a little cash(not enough to disqualify him from SSI) and he can be around his peer group. He also is involved in the Special Olympics and bowls every week in a bowling league for handicapped adults. They also have a group of parents that have teamed up to give each other a break. They have a schedule of which “kids” are going to have a sleep over so each set of parents get one weekend a month where their “kids” are not at home and they can have “adult time.” I don‘t know if any of this helps but if you don’t have these resources in your area you could start them up and get others involved or move to a city that has these resources. I would also check with Goodwill they are a great resource and can point you in the right direction to make the best of this situation.
Report Post »COFemale
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:37pmSo RFYCOM why did your parents keep you? You seem more mentally challenged than this child with Down Syndrome. You seem to be under the impression that ALL Down Syndrome children are vegetables all their lives. Some people just remain ignorant all their lives and spout off stuff in which they have no earthly clue; you are one of these RFYCOM.
Report Post »Owt_Raged
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 4:18pmI just scrolled through your posts, and it’s obvious you are angry. Angry that you can’t help your child, angry that someday no one will be around to help him after you are gone, angry that people want the government to be responsible with their money and probably angry with yourself for being angry.
I see you lashing out against people and God, like it’s their fault that this happened to you and your family.
We have a special needs child in our family. We worry constantly about who will care for her 20 or 30 years down the road. However, we don‘t blame anyone and we don’t expect anything from anyone. We enjoy what we have.
Hopefully, somewhere in your life, you will be able to find some joy. And for the sake of your child and yourself, I hope it’s soon.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 7:09amIf your child has no friends, it‘s because you don’t take him to a center for handicapped adults. He can meet all kinds of abilities there and make friends. They have dances, arts and crafts, and all kinds of things for the handicapped to do.
Report Post »Gonzo
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:25amCute kid.
Report Post »jakartaman
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:24amGOD does not make mistakes!
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:31amSure God makes mistakes. Stop being a submissive. Call God on his mistakes. Maybe if we all expect more from God he will perk up and do something.
Report Post »RickWS
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:32amThen how do explain democrats?
Report Post »Mrs.M
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:56amThats funny Rfycon, I am sure God is saying the same thing about expectations and about us! This article leads to this much anger and hate? This story makes people lose their minds and claim God is not doing enough for them? Wow. God can take it though, and it would be a good idea for you to ponder your own words but replace your name for Gods. You want God to wake up? He’s up. Your turn.
Report Post »trolltrainer
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:26amRFYCOM, I have seen you as simply a troll all this time. I appreciate your candor with us in this article, if what you say is true. I can see how your situation can affect your worldview.
God is perfect RFYCOM, He does not make mistakes. He does allow evil, the evil WE admitted into this world, to exist. He does this for a reason and that reason is free will. Your situation exists and God can help you through it. He did not cause it, nor did you. It is simply life. Turn to God, it would seem you at least believe in a god of some kind. Study theology, pray, turn to Jesus. He will probably not magically make your situation all better, nor will you likely find all the answers you want, but He will give you the strength to endure. The offer is for eternal life instead of eternal damnation, not a perfect life in this world.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:22amGod’s mistake was over-trusting you to deal with a handicapped child, not in making the child. I have bad days and good days, but I credit my child with teaching me unconditional love, forgiveness (which he still does better than me) and leading people to Christ. Yes, my son talks religion and fully understands and has been baptised. He’s not just “safe” he’s saved. You, sir, apparently can’t cope and need help.
Report Post »scrapadapolis
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:21amAnd this little angel will be exploited by gready parents.
Report Post »grudgywoof
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:30ampeople like you make me sick. the child likes it and it makes her happy so bug off you ogre.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:46amThe child likes it? THe child is too young to know what the hell is going on.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:27amMy son asks me if he can be on a billboard and be a star ALL the time. He says he wants the whole USA chanting his name. If he were photogenic, I would let him. Unfortunately, he has more pronounced Down’s traits than this little angel. And rfycom should be all for it, as it will pay for her meds. My son (being Down’s) has a 100% chance of getting alzheimer’s at some point. (because 100% of down’s adults, on autopsy, had alzheimer’s), he has a heart condition as does 50%, and Down’s are about 100 times more likely to have a co-diagnosis, and celiac disease, both of which he has. I’m so glad they found a way to make money. She won‘t qualify for medicaid on her own until she’s an adult.
Report Post »PlzGodMakeHimStop
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:20amIf we weren’t told, would most of us even know she had Down Syndrome? She adorable.
Report Post »rfycom
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:33amDowns or Chinese has to be one or the other.
Report Post »loriann12
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 7:03amBoy are you an idiot. you think Chinese kids don’t get Down syndrome? Do you even know what it is? It’s called Trisomy 21 because there are 3 number 21 chromosones. There are other characteristics besides the folds in the eyes. There’s a fat pad on the back of the neck, the foot prints are different, the ears are sometimes too small and placed too low on the face, the little finger is crooked, and the line in the palm of the hand goes straight across (called a simian line) instead of splitting. there is a range of intelligence from normal to severely retarded. My son, though about like a 3rd grader intelligence wise, actually scored a 69 on the IQ. They said there are “normal” people who slip through the education system with a 69. they’re the D and F students who barely make it out of school.
Report Post »Lainey
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:19amWhat a beautiful child! Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story.
Report Post »itsmyfirstday
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:19amWhat a wonderful story!
Report Post »GeneTracy
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:25amYes it is a wonderful story.What an inspiration to all of us! This is the real version of “Yes you can!”
Report Post »GallagherPreach
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:17am“Rather than lamenting Taya‘s Down’s, she says, “The way I see it, some people cannot even have children and God has given me this special child.””
Good for her! We need people to see the blessings of life and children, instead of seeing the disadvantages. When we see the advantages, the world is full of boundless opportunities!
Report Post »The Catbird
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:14amAdorable. To think that this little one and others like her a the target of a deadly agenda is chilling. There are slimy, fetid abortionists that seek to have prenatal babies like her incinerated as so much medical waste. For them, it will have been better if a “Millstone were tied to their necks and they were drowned in the depths of the sea” to cite an eternal quote.
Report Post »Chet Hempstead
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 3:21pmNobody has an agenda targeting people with Down’s Syndrome, but people can’t raise an unlimited number of children. When someone chooses to have a Down’s child, they are choosing to have it instead of a child who would have the potential to exceed their own accomplishments. It is better to have a millstone around your neck than loathing in your heart for the parents who choose to have a normal child instead or the people who offer them that choice.
Report Post »grudgywoof
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 8:12amGods ways are not our ways and his thoughts are not our thoughts. Just because a child has downs syndrom does not change the fact that this is a soul that is no different than any other and is special to God. I have known many downs syndrom kids and they are the most uplifting people I have ever met. One little girl at my church is just an angel come to earth, she sings beautifully and is alway smiling. The world says “abort this baby because she will never have a quality life and she will not be able to contribute to society” they just don’t see what God and I see.
Report Post »imsteph
Posted on November 29, 2011 at 9:56amAmen!
Report Post »In our area we have a wonderful community called ‘Just People’ where adults with challenges live as independent lives as possible. They have transportation to work-and many businesses in our area are blessed to employ their residents. They are wonderful workers and an asset to many businesses.
We also have a family with a down’s daughter who is a bright light in our neighborhood. She is the most friendly (unless you are her brother!) smiley girl you have ever met! She swims on our swim team, goes to school, and enjoys playing with all the rest of the kids on our street. I cannot imagine their family without her!
kcares
Posted on November 30, 2011 at 7:17amThat was a nice comment, and I agree. I hate to think of all beautiful children that may have been aborted because the libs want to distroy life. Casey Anthony gets a book deal for killing her beautiful little child, 2 new born babies killed the day they are born and the girl not sentenced. The Libs are making our young people more and more selfish and mean.
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