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Cheer Coach Removed for Screaming at Students and Calling Them ‘Heifers’

A TX cheer coach has been removed from her position after a student recorded her screaming at her cheerleaders and calling them “highfalutin heifers.”

“Who do you think you all are? Highfalutin heifers. You can just come and go as you please? Fire me!” the coach, from the Houston area, was heard screaming.

But that’s not all. She also found a way to work her mortgage into the diatribe. KPRC-TV (via Yahoo!) has more of the recording:

“I think that’s too much,” parent Khristina Melton told KPRC. “Even though they’re in high school, they shouldn’t be called anything different.”

“The term ‘heifer’ basically means overweight or obese,” Abel Olivares, the father of the girl who recorded the rant, said. “It’s definitely a negative term.” He wants the coach fired from her teaching job, too. Apparently the incident was just one of many.

But the coach isn’t the only one who got punished. Olivares’s daughter was sentenced to two days of detention because she used her cell phone to record the episode on school property and shared it with friends.

“They’re supposed to be there to learn, feel safe, feel that the teacher is going to have a high standard, just like they’re expected to do,” the dad added. “If nothing else, that audio protects another kid from being yelled at or verbally abused, then you did a good thing.”

But not everyone is buying it. One student told KPRC that yelling is just part of what coaches do.

The coaches name has not been released since she is not being charged with a crime.

What do you think? Should the coach have been removed, and possibly fired, for yelling at students?


Comments (75)

  • Pearsontech
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:26am

    Parents need to STOP babying their children so much. No wonder we have 99′ers and the like. Too many parents giving out participation trophies and kissing the smallest of boo boo’s. Need to teach our kids how to get back up and dust themselves off and move on with life. Too many whiny people in the world get over it.

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    • DrFrost
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 12:00pm

      If you‘re fat the coach tells you that you’re too fat.
      If you’re slacking off during practice the coach tells you to quit being lazy.

      And when you do well, the coach praises you for it. And it actually means something because you’ve learned that the coach is honest with you.

      My football coach was honest with us and I’ll always respect him. My track coach praised everyone, regardless of whether they deserved it or not. The track coach was a nice guy but I honestly don’t even remember his name. I wouldn’t trade one of the former for ANY number of the latter. I learned lessons in football I’ve carried throughout the rest of my life. I didn’t learn anything in track.

      To answer the article, I would NOT have punished this coach.

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    • qzak491
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 12:07pm

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      What’s a BOO BOO, that’s a new one for me. I always thought a boo boo was a mistake, how do you kiss a mistake. I guess if if the mistake is a kid you could kiss it???

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    • Detroit paperboy
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 12:12pm

      We need cameras in the Classrooms , to keep a close eye on the indoctrinators.. The technology is cheap and available….. The unions would fight it tooth and nail…

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    • brother_ed
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 12:30pm

      There are myriad ways to inspire people to do their best, some believe belittling works best. I do not.

      These are young ladies who need to be treated with respect.

      I remember a story from a girl’s soccer coach.
      He said that when you tell a team of boys that someone isn’t hustling hard enough, the boys look at each other and say ‘he’s talking about you”.
      When you tell a team of girls someone isn’t hustling enough, they think “he’s talking about me”.

      Girls think differently than boys, therefor they need to to be coached differently.

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    • RagingJudge
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 1:41pm

      Don‘t forget that it’s the parents whohave the right and responsibility to determine what sort of education their kids get. If they want the coach out, she needs to go. I personally had no real problem with her, and don’t think she should have been punished, but on the same note I‘m glad that the parents for once stood up agains something they didn’t like in their school system, and fixed the problem.

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    • Machtyn
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 3:34pm

      @Detroit_Paperboy: It would also protect the teachers from manipulative, evil “snowflakes”. You know the ones… the girls that will cry rape if the teacher gives her a bad grade or the boy that will cry abuse when he‘s told to sitdown and shutup when he’s swearing and disrupting the class.

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    • Jenny Lind
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 4:04pm

      It’s clear to me very few on the blog have handled cheerleaders. My grandaughter signs a contract with the school, the coach, that she will be at practice, work hard and be at games and functions. Only so many times absent. Parents are involved and it is taken seriously, enough to qualify as a letter in athletics. No babies need try out, it’s a tough game. Getting chewed out is part of it when you don’t give your best. Same as the big boys on the football team. I read the blog yesterday on the ATT newspage. Not one supported the girls, especially the one who was from the town. There is much that is missing from the story on the Blaze, especially about the young lady and her parents. Safe place my heine-my grandaughter couldn’t believe how disrespectfull and “mean and stupid” the girls were. Her quote-and she has lettered and is on the competition squad. Can’t have it both ways, big girl or whiney little girl, what do you want them to grow up to be? Oh, yeah, shame on me-it‘s everybody get’s a trophy world, right?

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    • HotFixIt
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 4:05pm

      If you listen to everything this teacher says and the complaint of the student… this has been going on… and for a reason. There is more behind this sory than a single incident and it involves more than a teacher just yelling… she is not yelling for the fun of it… she has been pushed into this situation by the girls repeated actions and attitudes. I believe all involved need some education and respect for each other.

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    • TEXAS-T
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 6:38pm

      You think that is bad! You should come out to a Humble High School baseball game and hear coach Sitten “motivate” his baseball team. Bring your ear plugs and leave you small children at home. I’ve seen and heard him “motivate”( GD and SOB”s) his players in the outfield using various “colorful mediators” while the district AD was standing at the fence next to the football coach and neither one batted an eye. If you have seen “Full Metal Jacket” and the exchange between the DI and Pvt Cowboy, then you will have an idea of what It sounded like. This “motivation” is a daily thing. But don’t take my word for it. If I said those things to my kids, CPS would be all over me.

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    • Bloody Sam
      Posted on February 15, 2012 at 4:25pm

      “The term ‘heifer’ basically means overweight or obese,” Abel Olivares, the father of the girl who recorded the rant, said. “It’s definitely a negative term.”

      Wrong Abel. A heifer is a young cow before she has had her first calf. No more. No less.
      Obesity has nothing to do with it. Sign your daughter up for 4H and let her learn something useful.

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  • AmericanStrega
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:17am

    Heifer (as in the bovine type) is a female bovine who has not yet been bred. Maybe this coach was paying her cheerleaders a compliment. Just saying….

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  • nosharia
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:04am

    She thinks she’s Sue Sylvester.

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  • schroeder123
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:56am

    That is just the way a black coach talks…nothing wrong with dat.

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  • loveliberty83
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:39am

    it seems the girl doing the video should have been suspended, maybe if she was lifting her legs & doing the drills instead of using her phone (which should have been taken away for a week) & not acting like cows do standing around eating & doing nothing yes cows are lazy it is a good term for these non compliant teens

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  • bigfatslob
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:19am

    …and you just know it was a thunder thighed young lady that recorded it :)

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  • BLACKDIAMONDSKIER
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:06am

    If you are large…..is is wrong for someone to call you a heifer?
    If you are a dolt….is it wrong for someone to call you a Democrat?
    If you are a Communist…..is it wrong for someone to call you an a**hole?
    If you are a Marxist…..is it wrong for someone to call you the President of the United States?

    Although unkind and ugly at times….the truth has a place in society.

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    • louaap
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:11am

      AAAAAAAmen to that!!!!

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    • DrFrost
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:49am

      Does the first officer concur?

      I do indeed WHOLEHEARTEDLY concur.

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    • EchoHawk
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 2:29pm

      And if you’re a fundamentalist from the lunatic fringe of the right you call yourself a patriotic American, but just because you walk around with feathers sticking out of your ass, that doesn’t make you a chicken. Jesus, what a whiny bunch of sycophants. No one thinks more alike then conservative water boy’s

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  • Watchyer6
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:55am

    OMG! The coach should be fired for that? When I was a high school wrestler, the coaches were like Marine drill sergeants. I didn’t suffer any emotional scars. On the contrary, it made me tougher and helped me learn to deal with adversity later in life.

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    • Faith1029
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:36am

      No, I don’t agree. Yelling at them is one thing but name calling is abuse. I wouldn’t be very happy if my daughter was called a heifer would you?

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    • RagingJudge
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 1:51pm

      You ever had any military training type experience? I’ve had plenty. The namecalling is there to break down your pride and humble you. To take your head out of the clouds and place your feet squarely on the ground, in the real world. I’ve had drill instructors call me and people around me all kinds of vile, demeaning (and quite humorously creative) names. I can positively tell you that the training regimen as a whole, name calling included, has helped us become more responsible, condiserate human beings.

      The world ain’t sunshine and lollipops. Someone someday is gonna call you a name you don’t like. You gonna kick their ass, cry about it, or shrug it off and move forward? Without these tough experiences, you‘re likely to pick one of the first two because you don’t understand how meaningless and significant a name is. “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me”, remember that?

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  • blanco5
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:52am

    Well, ted kennedy proved that you COULD go through life drunk, fat and stupid!

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    • blanco5
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:59am

      My girls took a cheer camp and I was shocked to see how chunky some of the cheerleaders teaching the class were. I was also shocked when I was at the YMCA pool to see all but ONE of the lifeguards fat and out of shape. So, these girls will do just fine. And the lawyers who sue the school.

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  • Missouri Mule
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:35am

    heif·er   [hef-er]
    noun
    a young cow over one year old that has not produced a calf.

    That about covers it.

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  • The_Jerk
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:32am

    This is exactly why obesity is the problem that it is. Social pressure once kept obesity in check. It was an embarrassment to be fat. Remove the control and get the result. Fat, lazy, slobs, should be called fat, lazy, slobs.
    If you don’t like it… change.

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    • RJJinGadsden
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:43am

      Not to mention the feeding frenzy of lawyers out there that sue at the drop of a hat every time a child gets a scratch or bump on a playground or while working out during PE in middle and high schools.

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    • qpwillie
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:15am

      Not to mention that “Heifer” has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with weight. For all you non-southerners, what the coach was saying is “You are a bunch of little snoots who think you are all grown up and that you know everything”.

      “Highfalutin heifers” covers all that and is a much more efficient way to say it.

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  • momrules
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:32am

    Well, the parents and school just enabled more spoiled brat behaviour. In this case I feel bad for the coach, this apparently very frustrated coach.
    And heifer is not a dirty word.

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  • SREGN
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:32am

    Vouchers would solve this. The problem is that the public school system is not accountable to student or teacher. Bring some free-market principles into the equation and it’ll take care of itself. If the coach yelling is a good thing students and parents will embrace it. If the coach just gets his/her jollies by screaming at kids, students and parents will have the power to address it. NFL coaches scream and yell too. I don’t see any of the players crying about it.

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  • USPATRIOT101
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:23am

    This is about “cheerleading” right? Friggin “cheeleading”???? All I can think about is the SNL skit where the Spartain Cheerleaders exposed Jim Carey for “fake spirit” totally hilarious As for this coach, get real. How about getting this passionate about something as silly as , ummm I dunno, GRADES!!!

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  • b00x
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:23am

    If we don’t allow our children some mild knocks and insults when young, how do we expect them to negotiate the world of adulthood, in which the knocks and insults are not nearly so always mild? Falling down and skinning knees on sidewalks teaches kids to cope, as does coming in fourth in a race, or being ranted at by a cheerleading coach. They all thicken the skin and build character. We continue to build a society in which no child is allowed to lose, no child is allowed to cry, and no child is allowed to develop a spine. Shame on us.

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  • RJJinGadsden
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:21am

    Goes back to that tough love NC father. LOL, I had coaches yell at me when I was a kid. Then had drill sergeants do the same thing, Get over it, and straighten up!

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    • loveliberty83
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:43am

      video taken teen was defying teacher she should have been doing drills phone shhould have been confiscated for a week & she should have been suspended, she was acting just like a lazy cow, no won said obese just plain lazy yes I would have yelled @ all of them one non conplying teen can ruin the class

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  • CHEERalum
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:21am

    Sometimes a coach is the only adult in a kid/young adult’s life that is actually requiring any discipline from them. Yelling, if the point you are trying to make needs to carry some serious gravity, is certainly on the table. They have to know you mean business – and sometimes being the loudest in the room is just the right medicine.

    My connection won’t allow me to watch the video (maybe someone can fill me in) – but I will say this – there is a point when yelling to prove a point becomes yelling to degrade and tear down. As a coach (and a cheer leading coach at that) I try my hardest never to reach that point.

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  • progressiveslayer
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:20am

    What do you want to produce strong women or pansies? I remember in high school our gym teacher would give you a pretty good shot to the chest (boys only) if you screwed around to much,today he’d be locked up.Nobody got killed or injured he just got the attention of a few idiots and they got the message.

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    • RagingJudge
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 2:04pm

      Problem is that stay-at-home mothers are often the best examples of strong women we have, yet the left has made them out to be “slaves to their husbands” and encouraged young girls to look elsewhere for inspiration. Guess they never lived in a real family long enough to know that “the man is the head, but the woman is the neck and can turn the head whichever way she wants”. And what do “independent”, “professional” women do? They have meaningless sex with numerous men to try to prove to themselves that they’re “worth something”. They are slaves to their own self-consciousness. This is what women in my generation are being taught to become.

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  • aquablue
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:20am

    forget the pep talks, it’s time for mr. rogers. they went over the line on this one. heifer? oh give me a break.

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  • BONETRAUMA
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:18am

    how sad, they will never be Marines…..maybe they can extort some money from the school district

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  • AzSage
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:18am

    Toughen up little girls. Live is going to throw a lot worse at you.

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  • SpankDaMonkey
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:16am

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    She has a point. I have never seen so many “Fat, Highfalutin Heifer” Cheerleaders & Dance squads in my life, til we moved to Texas…..

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    • Gonzo
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:19am

      I thought you were in Louisiana?

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    • SpankDaMonkey
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:30am

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      Been living in the Houston area for 15 years. But Louisiana is Home…..

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    • Gonzo
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:35am

      That has got to be the hottest city I have ever been to. I guess you’re used to it.

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    • SpankDaMonkey
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:05am

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      Hot & Humid as Hell, never get used to that….Last summer we boiled crawfish in the pool…….

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    • Gonzo
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:14am

      In July do you vacation in the Congo to cool off?

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    • yiska8
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:05am

      As a native Texan, who went to K-12 and college in Texas, I’ll tell you that there are some “healthy” girls in Cheerleading and Dance team and even Pep squads. Every school has that handful of chubby girls on the squad, but many lost the weight over the long haul. But it seems much more prevalent now. I’ve seen girls show up in parades in downtown San Antonio and WOW. They would have never been invited onto any squad of any kind at any time, no matter how bubbly or flexible they were. Now it’s very different. Now the heavier girsl outnumber the thinner framed girls! Must be all that McDonald’s Brisket, potato salad, chips, tacos, burgers, hot wings, and Starbucks Cappuchinos. Oh, and BIG RED soda! Oh, to eat like a teenager again!! If you eat like a heifer, be prepared to be called one, on or off the squad. Not fair, mean, and nasty, but such is life at times. The coash will probably keep her job, just hope none of the girls develops and eating disorder.

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  • BONETRAUMA
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:15am

    That is so hurtful. I hope the little girls don’t need medication and therapy. They can never be Marines now…..really makes me sad.

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    • RJJinGadsden
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:29am

      They could use some Sister Mary Elephant.

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    • Gonzo
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:30am

      They are scarred for life. Somebody yelled at them. They should sue for total disability for the rest of their lives.

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    • Gonzo
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:37am

      Nice C&C reference RJJ! That was funny stuff.

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    • yiska8
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 11:10am

      Try having an ultra competitive South Texas band director yelling and cursing at 200 kids and color guard members in 105 degree heat in August from a band tower. These girls being called this may be cruel to some, but to others this is just a sweet little cake walk compared to what we were called.

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  • B_Will_Derd
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:15am

    highfalutin heifer: def. – female that is out of control as in a young female cattle that is difficult to manage and unruly. I’ve dealt with enough of the bovine and human types to know this well.

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  • OhSuzieQ
    Posted on February 14, 2012 at 9:14am

    If you can’t take the heat….get out.

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    • dheard
      Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:49am

      So what if these girls are overweight? That means they should be called heifers? Maybe some of you don’t realize it but being a teenager these days is a lot harder than it used to be and if you are overweight you can compound the difficulty factor. The last thing these girls need is an adult yelling at them about how horrible they are. If they need to improve, stop yelling and be a coach and figure out a solution. Some of you will say that that’s what coaches do is yell. Well, my high school basketball coach never yelled but we knew if we didn’t listen or perform like we should that we would pay for it by running the stairs of the football stadium w/ a 45lb weight. An effective leader doesn’t need to yell or belittle to get results. Some of you are a little callous in your assessment of this situation and others. Yeah, there are a lot of spoiled punk kids out there but tough love is what they need, not just the “tough” part – that’s where prison comes in. This coach didn’t seem to be helping these girls understand that she cared about them b/c this yelling was a common occurrence it seems.

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    • 9111315
      Posted on February 15, 2012 at 1:01pm

      “So what if these girls are overweight? That means they should be called heifers?”

      Yes. The only other option is to lie.

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