Malaysian ‘Obedient Wives Club’ Says Prostitution Could Be Cured if Women Keep Their Men Happy
- Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:32am by
Billy Hallowell
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Editor’s note: this is an update to our previous story on the issue. This story contains some eye-opening video from the club’s vice president.
In the U.S. we had “The First Wives’ Club,” but in Malaysia, there’s the “Obedient Wives’ Club.” As we told you before, this new group is teaching women to be more yielding and “respectful” to their husbands’ needs. Bizarrely, club leaders are claiming that domestic violence and prostitution could be cured if women simply spent more time keeping their husbands happy in the bedroom.
Shahrizat Abdul Jalil, the nation‘s minister for women’s affairs, says the club may be giving the Islamic nation a bad name. BBC has more:
The “Obedient Wives Club” was started by a fringe Muslim group earlier this month…
[Its leaders] say women should be “better than a first-class prostitute”.
That way, the men are less likely to stray or resort to violence, they say.
Human rights groups and religious officials have dismissed the club as an insult to both men and women.
Perhaps the people who created the club are looking to be edgy. Two years ago, the same individuals launched a polygamy endeavor as well. Leaders claim that they hope to see this new initiative expand across Southeast Asia.
Below, watch the club’s vice-president, Dr. Rohaya Mohamad, discuss the crew’s plans. She says, “To be a good wife — you must also be good in bed” (and plenty more):



















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Comments (95)
ProbIemSoIver
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 10:05amThese People are Complete wackos… bottom line. Had enough of them. Not only do I not want to Hear their pathetic rhetoric anymore, I don’t even want to have to look at these barbaric, disgusting roaches. Was that not politically correct? lol.
Report Post »windycitywoman
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:47amMay have helped if this video had been translated into English ~
Report Post »IMAKESENSETOME
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:45am[Its leaders] say women should be “better than a first-class prostitute”.
That way, the men are less likely to stray or resort to violence, they say.
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Or, how about the men be better than sixth-century marauders, treating their women with dignity and honor as their co-created helper? The logic of this group is asinine. These women remind me of the girls in high school who would date the worst guy in the school and no matter what you did to persuade them he was the worst guy, he was still their dream guy and would do anything to please him.
Muslim women, you deserve better than being the orgasmic pleasure device of a man.
Report Post »sbeejustsaying
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:35amthe “Obedient Wives’ Club.” is teaching women to be more yielding and “respectful” to their husbands’ needs. Bizarrely, club leaders are claiming that domestic violence and prostitution could be cured if women simply spent more time keeping their husbands happy in the bedroom.
Dr. Rohaya Mohamad, discuss the crew’s plans. She says, “To be a good wife — you must also be good in bed” (and plenty more):
REALLY??? (Sarcastic tone) So explain multiple wives. Explain what the big deal is about 71 virgins .Explain why they cover their women up in unattractive burkas.
This is another funny one. Men cheat because wives because wives are not good in bed. So the wife must be more compliant, read “The Happy ******”, meet him at the door dressed in plastic wrap and take pole dancing classes. Why not just allow him to cheat and visit hookers? If that what makes him happy. Dr. Rohaya Mohamad isn’t as smart as she thinks she is.
Report Post »Shiroi Raion
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:22amYa, giving weapons to these people is as smart as giving machine guns to tribes of cannibals.
Report Post »flsnipe
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:20amUma , Hillary listen up!
Report Post »nomercy63
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:38amShocking!!!!!! Men like sex a lot!!!!! Women don’t give men sex a lot!!!!!!! Conclusion men seek satisfaction elsewhere!!!!! Doesn’t mean they are not in love with you!!!!! You think after millions of years someone might figure it out, especially women!!!
Report Post »EqualJustice
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:30amStupid story. If my husband cheated on me I’d just leave him. If you take a VOW then keep it. We have an understanding and have for years…. If you don’t want to be here with me, leave. I’d rather see you happy and it goes for both of us. Cheating is NOT ALLOWED. PERIOD. When you LOVE someone, hurting them is the LAST thing you want to do. These men should just NOT GET MARRIED, if they want other women. Simple. Have a nice day.
Report Post »alina.bolero
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:17amI can see it now … Muslim Whore Class 101 ….
“OK LADIES! …. SIMMER … Good! Now everyone find a partner. Today we are going to learn how to take your man’s penis in your mouth … all the way down your throat … assuming he is long enough (giggles) … WITHOUT gagging. We are going to switch half way through this exercise. So, one of you pick up one of these strap on ******. I will be coming around to help you secure it in place. OH … and another thing … tomorrow will be our anal penetration class. So, everyone be sure to bring some lubricant … and why don’t we all try dressing up like Catholic school girls. We can do a little role play. We all know how our men LOVE to sexually abuse the infidels!”
Hmmmmmm. So, if you really where, in fact, a lesbian living in a Muslim country, I would imagine that you would face some pretty severe persecution, if not stoning to death, if you outed yourself. So, your choices are: a) stoning to death, or b) marry some guy. I’d go with the marry some guy approach … and then start a “Whoring for your Muslim husband” class, which is really just a front for a lesbian sex ring … so we can all get our frustrations out!
Report Post »catndahat
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:14amArres the john along with the ******, publish his name, make him pay a fine, and then after three strikes, he gets 80 lashes. That might cure the problem also.
Report Post »ares338
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:42amLet’s not lose our head over this whole situation.
Report Post »loadingmyclips
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:36amAmerican women are such pigs.
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:56amPlease do wow us some more with your intellect and logic.
What are you…..15???
Report Post »EqualJustice
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:25amLook at his name.. Mr. Macho man, can’t even get a woman, IMO! :)
Report Post »ThoreauHD
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:11amI don’t think muslims relationships quite align with normal people. Next time I’m in hell, I‘ll ask for a burka wearing slut’s advice though. I promise.
Report Post »mount hood
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:20amIt helps if you marry your first cousin like the majority of muslim men do. That way you can inbreed a nice passive nature into women like Allahbaba wants. A recent National Geo article also pointed out another muslim barbarian technique: marry girls between the ages of six and eleven. That way you can train them not to bite you at an early age. Islam has the right idea about women and their place below goats and cows in any Progressive Serf based Society. Women are better seen and not heard. It’s their true lot in life, so get over it girls and go out a find a fashionable burka and learn to love your betters. Women should know their mostly horizontal places in society and religion.
Report Post »Socialism_Is_The_New_Black
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:55am@On The Bayou – Well done! Lol.
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:48amThe New Testament says “Wives do not deny your husbands lest they be tempted to stray” the Good Book also says women have no authority over their bodies, their husbands own their bodies.
I take great pleasure in simple things like having his meals ready when he gets home from work, but it also brings me pleasure to know that I rock his world behind closed doors;)
As a conservative Christian woman I really don’t have a problem with what these women are saying. Of course there are bad men who will still stray BUT it saddens me to see all of the “womens lib”” today. We wonder why our kids are out of control. I will NOT say women have forgotten their place, that makes us sound “less than” I WILL say women have forgotten how to be proud of being a woman.
Even Kay Author says that as women we need to please our husbands. In fact she spoke about how stressed they can get and how we as wives can help ease that stress in the bedroom. OK so if a jerk likes to beat women, maybe that wont stop him ….BUT…..a little “lip service” can sure put a relaxed smile on your grumpy hubbies face. I don’t know about the rest of you but I personally am happier when he is happier.
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:13amOh and…..if anyone wants to know when and where Kay Author said that….she did a joint conference/bible study with Beth Moore and Priscilla Shrier called Deeper Still. At the end of it they had a “sit down:” where they answered questions that had been emailed in.
These are three women that we ALL can learn much from.
Report Post »lana720
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 12:05pmGreat post, thank you!
Report Post »debi3690
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:13pm@justme72, You are aware that women have the right to vote and drive a car?? just asking…
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:32pmDEBI you are aware I follow God‘s law and not man’s right??
Report Post »foobear
Posted on June 16, 2011 at 4:32am@Justme72 – I keep quoting that verse to my wife, but alas, it doesn’t seem to go over very well.
Report Post »kickagrandma
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:39amAs an older, mature woman (I AM OLDER….yet to grow up), I must stand up for women, at least for most of us.
Most of us have never been women before we became women and we have much to learn. Most of us were reared to fill the role of making men happy. Men, for too long, have been allowed to be “little boys” still waiting to “grow up”. For ref. see latest national scandals and view the current office holder of President.
Got news for you males~~~ YOU are supposed to make us happy. When we are happy, everything works well, including sex. And, then, you are happy….
Don’t know about how things are now, but historically, it has not been the female reading dirty magazines “for the news articles”. It has not been the females out running around, or in these days, sending photos of ourselves after working out.
JESUS tells men to love their wives as HE LOVES THE CHURCH. We see and feel more of that from you guys, and feel secure in your love for us, and there isn’t a prostitute in the world who can give you what a well-loved wife can provide you!
Just sayin’…..
Report Post »HoustonLineman
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:44amEverything you’ve said is completely accurate.
That being said, Jesus also said for the women to obey your husband as the church obeys Him. Regardless of whatever he might or might not be reading “for the articles”.
also just sayin…
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:54am“Most of us were reared to fill the role of making men happy”
Eve was created to be a helpmate. Men need us, they are not complete without us…..
God created us to “make men happy”
Report Post »GadsdenPatriot
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:05amSo happiness for your partner is merely a side effect of your emotional state at any given time. For you happiness is an entitlement showered over you at another persons expense. Forgive me for pointing this out, but you sound in love with yourself. I wouldn‘t be surprised if you sit about the house all day barking orders at your husband and he’s probably got such low self-esteem he just puts up with it for fear that to make you unhappy will be met with punishment.
If you love someone you’ll naturally want to make them happy, not expect things from them. I think that is part of the beauty of love; you naturally take care of eachother without even thinking about it.
Report Post »GadsdenPatriot
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:06amlast comment @ kickagrandma
Report Post »justme72
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:13amGADSDENPATROIT….
“If you love someone you’ll naturally want to make them happy, not expect things from them. I think that is part of the beauty of love; you naturally take care of eachother without even thinking about it.”
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!
Report Post »sbeejustsaying
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:46amYou are so right. Happy wife happy life. I once knew a man who wasn’t tall, good looking or had allot of money. He was very sexy. When asked “Why do you go so far out of your way to please? He said. “I know I’m not handsome or rich so if I do go out of my way, women will always come back”
As for cheating husbands: When your bored with your wife, it’s because you are boring.
Report Post »heavywx
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 10:03amI‘t’s not a husbands job to make you happy, fulfill you, and/or complete you. All those things are up to you. The last time I checked, its said nothing in the bible about making your wife happy in order to have sex with her, or have a good relationship. A little reading between the lines here suggests to me that your husband has to jump through a whole bunch of hoops to make you “happy” in order for you to have sex with him. A real relationship is a partnership based on love, trust, respect, honor, compassion, passion those sort of things. When you say your husband needs to make you happy, then I hear the chior tuning up……..me me me me me me me.
Report Post »sbeejustsaying
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 11:37am@heavywx
A real relationship is a partnership based on love, trust, respect, honor, compassion, passion those sort of things. When you say your husband needs to make you happy, then I hear the chior tuning up.
If you love, trust, respect, honor, have compassion for and passion for someone don’t you want to make them happy? Just telling your wife you feel this way is not big deal. You make your wife happy heavywx and you will have her eatting out of your hand and doing whatever YOU want to make YOU happy. Funny how that works. You will be the one with the power and the one with the most power wins. I’m sure you already know that though.
Report Post »kennyg933
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:34pmI agree with you Grandman. But, when women can’t treat their man well, that’s the other way that 50/50 doesn’t work. Men are NOT Jesus; they are just men. Last I read in the Bible, Jesus never got wildly screwed by a Puerto Rican mama with a backside like J Lo’s. If He did, the Bible probably would have had some different passages. But I digress and I am being crude- but deliberately so. The point of this IS sex, something Jesus didn’t talk too much about, other than, let’s say Song of Solomon, (If you believe that Jesus was the author of the Bible) where the writer, from the women’s narative says, “My beloved put in his hand by the hole, and my bowels were moved for him.” So GOD thinks it’s hot for a woman to get her hole fingered and have a little accident. If God thinks it’s hot, then I think you should agree too.
Report Post »SpankDaMonkey
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:10am.
Report Post »I’m liking their attitude. Feed me, F me & wash my clothes is that to much to ask?
ginger100
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:42amI gave my wife my heart, not my eyeballs. But seriously, you have to be an ass to go as far as to pull a clinton weiner.
Report Post »GadsdenPatriot
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:38amWhat about those who get a thrill finding new…uh….talent?
Report Post »PoliticalSmackdown {Friend me on YouTube}
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:21amso are they saying Islamic woman are sluts?
Report Post »HoustonLineman
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:42amJust to be clear, they’re saying that Muslim women *ought to be* sluts.
Here’s to hoping…
Report Post »Jediusetheforce
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:06amThis is what happens. Get married enjoy the honeymoon for a year, then have kids. After she has kids its all over. No more sucking ____. Her job is done. Then guys look at porn on the internet at girls(young,old, or specialty). Not all guys, but 9 out of 10 do. The Truth has no Agenda!!!
Report Post »Diane TX
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:25amInteresting opinion. Anthony Weiner hasn’t been married for a full year yet, and it’s said that his wife is pregnant. It seems that the “Weiner” has a mental problem because he can’t stop sending pictures of his junk out over the Internet. Maybe it was because Bill Clinton “officiated” at their wedding, that screwed up their very short marriage.
Report Post »sissykatz
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:14amDiane Tx
I think maybe you are right. He is only following Clintons example. His wife will probably follow Hillerys if she has political asperations like hers. Don’t you if Hillery was not obcessed with politics she would have kicked Bill/s butt to the curb.
Report Post »kennyg933
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:20pmJust look at the differences between between the women‘s comments and the men’s. Common denominator: the women here aren’t listening either. They preach from the soap box about these lofty ideals about what they feel marriage should be, and they pound it home, demanding that the men get it. All they while the get hairier, more unwilling to rememberor respect what brought the man in in the first place. It’s as if they are saying “Once we breed, there’s no need,” despite the pleading from their husband, whom they complain about as “Too much of this and not enough of that.” Gee, I CANNOT understand why he persues another woman who is taking care of it, rather than pathetically pulling into his driveway to walk into his complaining wildesbeest of a wife who blames him for her disinterest. (Heavy sarcasm.) The woman in this video is talking to YOU women, woman to woman, a voice in the wilderness crying, “Wash that thing! Trim a shooting lane! Put on some perfume. Dance. Look at him with lust.” I will gladly put off dinner or make myself a sandwich if I know some hottie is going to ride me when I get home. In that respect, I don’t CARE about dinner or what was in the mail. Men don‘t need to hear why you don’t like or want sex. Men DO NOT CARE why not. Ring or no ring, there is a hottie within 1/2 mile of you NOW who will swallow AND make you a sandwich. Wives- BE that hottie for YOUR husband. Or suffer the consequences. That’s the bottom line!
Report Post »eretsim
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:57amummm… no comment.
Report Post »Diane TX
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:51amTrust, honor, and respect – that’s what true love looks like.
Report Post »Netsurfer2
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:41amIt’s a two way street! Husband and Wife should both be receptive to each other’s needs, including respecting one another as well.
Report Post »On The Bayou
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:34amMr. Netsurfer2 respect is not what will keep her from jumping in bed with Tyrone Johnson. That polite and respect thing is an old wives tale. They want that thing pounded.
Report Post »Netsurfer2
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:07amNothing wrong with good sex as well…role playing and what ever turns you on..
Report Post »GadsdenPatriot
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:44am@ On The Bayou, sex does get monotonous after so many years with the same partner. It’s important for a wife to know the art of seduction to keep her man pleased. Conversely the husband needs to be able to connect with his wife on an emotional sensual level before she’ll enjoy the “pounding.” Oh, and lots of foreplay.
Dingbats who put out easily no longer interest me as they did when I was younger. They‘re just looking for attention which I’ve come to see as a sign of weakness, immaturity and just plain pathetic.
Report Post »biohazard23
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:42am@GadsdenPatriot,
This woman agrees with you 100%!
Report Post »1stAmendment
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 4:40amFinally the women are noticing what the problem is!
Report Post »sissykatz
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:02amI think another way to keep the men faithful is to let them stay at home and do the “Womens work” they can get up dress the kids make breakfast for everyone, clean dishes, get kids off to school, come home clean house , go to grocery store, take kids to all outside activities, come home and cook dinner, while the woman works outside the home. That way when they do all the woman has to do, they are too TIRED to STRAY..
Just saying……lol
Report Post »On The Bayou
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:25amThat is not something that has to be taught, alot wives are whores in bed. The problem is they hold back when they are with their husband.
Report Post »Dustyluv
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:59amYea that Berka, no makeup and dirt floor hut is sure gonna sure keep ‘em home.
Report Post »GUT_CHECK
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 5:59amTHIS SEEMS TO SOLVE a very large problem. i wonder if there is a website that takes donations. it’s like anti-terrorism. just be sure they are on “the pill”
Report Post »GadsdenPatriot
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:02amThis article is saying Weiner has a bad wife. I just hope he pulls out of office. I hope he goes down, instead of stiffing it out.
Report Post »EddardinWinter
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 6:31amFunny. I always thought cheating was an ego thing. I guess there are no bad husbands? An amazing perception.
Report Post »grandmaof5
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:04amCheating is a state of mind but whatever helps keep them safe from their husbands, brothers or fathers. Around here we use the Bobbit method, ‘whack and toss’.
Report Post »Obama Bin Lying
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:24amThis is just a sad statement that has shown how badly Islam has defeated these women. Instead of women becoming strong, and working at a relationship, they are telling women to be whores for their husbands. These women should have a little more self respect for themselves
Report Post »watchmany2k
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 7:35amMisguided, had they listened to the imams, “the cure” is taking sex slaves,
Report Post »then the wives can go back to their role as receptacles of -multiplying for the sword.
biohazard23
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:01amMaybe if these women just donned the sheep or goat costume once in a while…..
Report Post »frcomega
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:26amEnglish is not her 1st language. I have listened to what she is saying. She is saying it starts at home, wife’s take care of your husband after all he is your husband satisfy him. Reading the post all I am getting are excuses from women why not to satisfy there husband…and the men backing that position. I am making an observation not a comment. If I missed this fact someone show me how please.
Report Post »rose-ellen
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:30amSounds like they read Cosmopolitan magazine an American culural staple.
Report Post »riaf-decnalab
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:30amPope John Paul II has a teaching called The Theology of the Body. What this woman claims as truth is closer than what most modernized women practice. In Truth, what should really exist between husband and wife is an equal desire to please your partner. This is straight from the Holy Pope’s teaching. This is a pretty novel idea, heh? But it’s the Truth.
Report Post »Sinista MACE
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:46amShe is so spot on with her assessment.
Some women look at their genitals as currency… this society reinforces it too.
“It ain’t tricking if you got it”….yea right. Tricking is tricking is tricking. You’re a trick and a john if you pay for it. I don’t care how rich you are or that the money is not a problem for you. Prostitution is lame.
Report Post »kennyg933
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 8:58amShe’s right! And 1st Amendment is right. Sissykatz is worng. After marriage, my now ex wife forgot what a razor was, forgot what Summer’s Eve was and forgot what kissing was. After divorce, I did have the opportunity to be a ‘housewife’ and cook all the meals and take care of the kids. I got laid more times by the neighborhood ladies than I thought possible. Picking up a gallon of milk at the grocery store took on a whole new meaning! And Bayou is right-I‘ll bet this one married women never gobbed her hubby’s knob in the car like she did mine. And I’ll bet the others never put out for their hubbys like they did for a stranger. The lady in this video has a good sense of reality. She geets that men want to enjoy sex and as a wife, if you reject that, or are inept or incapable, you frigidity will be your undoing. Same goes for husbands too, but wives- make it nice for him. TELL him you made it nice for him. AND kill your TV, just as a general rule for happiness in today’s world.
Report Post »frcomega
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 9:47amKENNYG933 Stated perfectly!
Report Post »Edct
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 10:58amComing soon to American women…the infidel womens muslim slave club….do it or else you will be raped and beaten
Report Post »Sinista MACE
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 11:07am“After marriage, my now ex wife forgot what a razor was, forgot what Summer’s Eve was and forgot what kissing was.”
Awwwwwhahahahahahahaahhaha!!
Man!!!
You are King Kong standing beside men.
Report Post »VegasGuy
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 12:17pmHer husband would be easy to spot. Just look for the guy with the huge grin in his face.
Report Post »Elena2010
Posted on June 15, 2011 at 1:56pmTry being a companion to each other. Try working out differences in kindness. Marriage is work, not just sex! Marriage is abt mutual fulfillment and communications, not just sex. Real marriages are teamwork, not just sex. Sex is the force multiplier.
Report Post »vidyohs
Posted on June 16, 2011 at 10:43amWhy does Billy Hallowell think it bizzare that homes having happy contented married couples would cut down on violence and crime? To me it is bizzare that he would call it bizzare.
I thought I was going to have to come down on you people until I came to KennyG933′s post and he beat me to it. But, he left me me lots of room to beat up on the idiots who denigrated the woman, her organization, and their goals.
Yes, once a woman has had good raw sex to orgasm, she likes it just as much as men; but, how many men actually know how to do their part in the bargain………and therein lies a big part of the problem. Hells bells guys, if once a night is all your testosterone will let you do, then you’d do well to learn to make that one last a long time, because I can guarantee you that she is capable of many more orgasms than just one. You can give her fulfillment, but you have to love her and learn to please her. This will not make 100% of couples faithful, but it will sure bring the percentages up in the high 80s at least and that would be a vast improvement.
The room KennyG933 left is in addressing the guys. If the guys admire a nice well shaped woman, and they grouse like hell when after marriage the woman lets herself go, then they might also look to their own physique as part of the problem. Are you still the hard, energetic, trim guy she married, or have you let yourself go to pot, eatin’ them pork rinds and watching that TV? In short men need to get their act togeth
Report Post »Sinista MACE
Posted on June 17, 2011 at 7:32amI‘m one of those fortunate guys that don’t have to work out that much. I’m just naturally buff, in all aspects.
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