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Read the Viral, Angry E-Mail One Mother Sent to Her Daughter-in-Law Over Manners

Read the Viral, Angry E Mail One Mother Sent to Her Daughter in Law Over Manners

The angry mother-in-law.

Let‘s just start by saying it’s going to be a an awkward wedding between the Bourne and Withers families.

That’s because Carolyn Bourne, mother of the groom, recently sent a scathing e-mail to her future daughter-in-law, Heidi Withers, ripping Withers about her manners, and even jabbing the bride’s father. It’s now sparked a war of words between the two British families.

“If you want to be accepted by the wider Bourne family, I suggest you take some guidance from experts with utmost haste,” Bourne wrote.

She also accused Withers of “regularly draw[ing] attention to” herself, noted that Withers‘s parents can’t “contribute very much towards the cost of your wedding,“ and went as far as to say she has ”pity” for her son, Freddie.

The bride‘s father didn’t take too kindly to being called out in the e-mail.

Read the Viral, Angry E Mail One Mother Sent to Her Daughter in Law Over Manners

The happy couple.

“I think she has her head stuck so far up her own a*** she doesn’t know whether to speak or fart,” he said.

“I met Carolyn and her husband Edward for dinner at a pub in London last year. Edward was a jovial chap but Carolyn was quite snotty,” he added.

Gawker has a copy of the e-mail that started it all. The e-mail now heard round the world:

It is high time someone explained to you about good manners. Yours are obvious by their absence and I feel sorry for you.

Unfortunately for Freddie, he has fallen in love with you and Freddie being Freddie, I gather it is not easy to reason with him or yet encourage him to consider how he might be able to help you.

It may just be possible to get through to you though. I do hope so.

Your behaviour on your visit to Devon during April was staggering in its uncouthness and lack of grace.

Unfortunately, this was not the first example of bad manners I have experienced from you.

If you want to be accepted by the wider Bourne family I suggest you take some guidance from experts with utmost haste.

There are plenty of finishing schools around. You would be an ideal candidate for the Ladette to Lady television series.

Please, for your own good, for Freddie’s sake and for your future involvement with the Bourne family, do something as soon as possible.

Here are a few examples of your lack of manners:

When you are a guest in another’s house, you do not declare what you will and will not eat – unless you are positively allergic to something.

You do not remark that you do not have enough food.

You do not start before everyone else.

You do not take additional helpings without being invited to by your host.

When a guest in another’s house, you do not lie in bed until late morning in households that rise early – you fall in line with house norms.

You should never ever insult the family you are about to join at any time and most definitely not in public. I gather you passed this off as a joke but the reaction in the pub was one of shock, not laughter.

I have no idea whether you wrote to thank [your future sister-in-law] for the weekend but you should have hand-written a card to her.

You should have hand-written a card to me. You have never written to thank me when you have stayed at Houndspool.

[Your future sister-in-law] has quite the most exquisite manners of anyone I have ever come across. You would do well to follow her example.

You regularly draw attention to yourself. Perhaps you should ask yourself why.

It is tragic that you have diabetes. However, you aren’t the only young person in the world who is a diabetic.

I know quite a few young people who have this condition, one of whom is getting married in June. I have never heard her discuss her condition.

She quietly gets on with it. She doesn’t like being diabetic. Who would? You do not need to regale everyone with the details of your condition or use it as an excuse to draw attention to yourself. It is vulgar.

As a diabetic of long standing you must be acutely aware of the need to prepare yourself for extraordinary eventualities, the walk to Mothecombe beach being an example.

You are experienced enough to have prepared yourself appropriately.

No-one gets married in a castle unless they own it. It is brash, celebrity style behaviour.

I understand your parents are unable to contribute very much towards the cost of your wedding. (There is nothing wrong with that except that convention is such that one might presume they would have saved over the years for their daughters’ marriages.)

If this is the case, it would be most ladylike and gracious to lower your sights and have a modest wedding as befits both your incomes.

One could be accused of thinking that Heidi Withers must be patting herself on the back for having caught a most eligible young man. I pity Freddie.

Comments (286)

  • freedomisasfreedomdoes
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:39am

    What finishing school did the would be mother in law attend? Hitler’ s would be mother in laws finishing school? I guess if that would be the case she definitely got her moneys worth. How educated both on Diabetes and in general is this mother in law? Is she aware how individualistic diabetes is as a disease? No two diabetics are alike. Not even if they are bot either Type I or II. Could it have been that the would be daughter in law recognized she was having a hypoglycemic episode and needed to eat accordingly and perhaps did not want to bother her would be sister in law with her potentially going into a diabetic coma? In other words she wanted to prevent a show of bad manners by collapsing to the ground and river going into a coma or dying. How small is this mother in laws life and grasp on it that she must zero in on minute details of someone’s manners when she herself could take some lessons in tact. She at this point needs all the help she can get. Oh and a course on diabetes. Before you try to take a splinter out of someone else’s eye take the 4×4 out ofyour own.

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  • Buttercup
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:39am

    I pity Freddie, too. His mum sounds like she’s Hyacinth Bucket (pronunced “bouquet”), a BritCom character.

    Seriously, I received a similar snail-mail from my mother-in-law 30 years ago, only it was about my children’s manners. Funny though, she’s dead now, but her grandchildren somehow assimilated manners somewhere along the line and are doing swimmingly. Ah, I have such fine memories of MaMa…not!

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  • Newsjunki
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:39am

    Snooty, heady, better than thou excuse for a human being. She’s going to cause this girl and her family a ton of trouble!

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  • capecodsully
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:39am

    Not to worry Mum, if I were marrying your son, there would be no “further involvement with the Bourne family”. As a matter of fact, I‘d have already come up with the story of Grandma’s untimely death for my future kids, who will never be meeting this witch (she tragically wandered into the lions cage at the zoo, in a drunken stupor of course).

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  • Drum Man
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:39am

    Well there‘s 2 minutes I’ll never get back….

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  • BigMac 007
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:36am

    Wow…strange how most of the responses are against the mother. I think she’s is spot on against the self-absorbed, don’t you dare judge me generation. Time for the bride to put on her big girl pants if she wants to have the privileges of the adults.

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    • Susie
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:09pm

      I agree with with you BIGMAC

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    • Falsegods
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:25pm

      The mother-in-law is an old hag !

      And is trying to show dominance over her son’s wife .

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  • whereareyourbrains
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:35am

    Amusing. I like to read a little bit of frivolty once in awhile. We have all the other stories that are depressing in their own right. It made me see arrogance is still in full bloom…….everywhere.

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  • bombshelterbob
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:32am

    Reason #1 why I will ALWAYS love and appreciate my mother-in-law Rosalie.

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  • cookcountypatriot
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:31am

    im sure the young children involved in the flash mob hyjinks in chicago,atlanta,philly and elsewhere would do well to sit and chat with carolyn bourne..thats all those pranksters need…manners..lol

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  • Biminy
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:30am

    To the folks who want to complain everytime the Blaze posts something inoccuous…Shut up!!! Did you ever stop to think that maybe they post some completely inane stories to maybe give some people a chuckle or something else to think about other than the absolutely dreary and f’d up world we live in currently?

    Sometimes it’s nice to read something inane….I‘m just sayin’….

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    • Conservative New Yorker
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:03pm

      Agreed!

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    • ProPhoto
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:51pm

      Totally agreed… I appreciate a good laugh.

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    • Nonnieof3
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:56pm

      RIGHT ON! You SO get it…

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    • Jennine
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:45pm

      I agree. Lighten up, you grumps. The Blaze keeps you informed, let them offer a little pressure-release story once in a while. I for one am grateful it’s about a stodgy British mother-in-law and not some crass, disgusting pseudo-celebrity and what horrendous outfit she wore to the convenience store on a Tuesday afternoon. If you don’t like it, buzz off to a more foreboding topic.

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  • Carl1 Supports Israel
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:29am

    I kinda feel sorry for all of them. OMG, I left my socks on the floor this morning. Hope i don’t get a nasty letter from my in-laws. LMAO

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  • the_ancient
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:29am

    This is even worse than TMZ, atleast TMZ follows AMERICANS

    it is not news that Brits are Stuck up…… Why do you think we rebelled…..

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  • Fool
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:28am

    I disagree with those who opine this is not news. It is public and so invites discussion.

    I think the email is important. The future mother-in-law takes a tone of truly trying to help. I hope the bride takes the advice and breaks out of the mold of so many of our young who feel entitled (and have taken that to new levels) and tend toward extreme vanity.

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    • JUNEBUG8
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 6:46am

      She criticizes for the young woman commenting on her diabetes and saying what she will or won’t eat and that she needs more. Perhaps she is just trying to take care of her condition. As a diabetic, there are many times I have to adjust what is offered me. The mother-in-law is a loon.

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  • Hiswill
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:27am

    My life is pretty boring, but I think I could come up with a better story than this. Better no news than junk like this, BLAZE.

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  • Eraldo NY Tea Party
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:25am

    Focus Please.

    God bless!

    Happy Independence Day Fellows Americans.

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  • Oh My God
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:24am

    This kind of crap will send readers elsewhere, .
    What’s van Jones up to? What’s the floatilla up to? what’s going on in Syria” When is Obama going on vacation again? Blaze get with the program!!

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    • pinnybogg
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:52pm

      all can’t be serious, give it a rest!!!! I enjoyed the humour for a bit. God take a break every once in a while it does the soul good

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  • wingedwolf
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:22am

    I am no fan of the british caste type system, but it seems to me that this woman is mostly correct! Of course, being brash and uncouth myself, I would simply have thrown that un-housebroken, ill-mannered, grasping little harpy out on her a$$.

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    • biohazard23
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:40am

      That would be no way to treat your step-monster-in-law, now would it? :)

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  • Joanne M
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:22am

    Mrs. Bourne probably does have a point, but she would have been better off taking her future daughter in law aside and speaking kindly to her about the issue. Though judging from the tone of her letter, I can’t imagine her speaking kindly to anyone not of her class.

    I pity Freddie too, but not for the same reasons his mother does.

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  • TRONINTHEMORNING
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:21am

    Don’t care

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  • MONICNE
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:20am

    O_M_G, this is soooooooooooooo relevant!

    Glenn is losing his empire. It is truly unreal watching it fall apart so well am so fast

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    • FREDD The WILSON
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:30am

      I can’t believe I am agreeing with you.. All this will become is some stupid reality TV Spoof.

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    • USACommoner
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:19pm

      Glenn “conquered” the empire of Fox News…now he is moving on to something new and even more challenging. Once again, you are ignoring the facts and changing the story to fit your own needs. Typical, but thanks for being so consistent and utterly predictable. We appreciate you :)

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    • Michael600r
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:43pm

      Losing his empire? explain… which I know you won’t.

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    • Jim in Houston
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:55pm

      Keep holding your breath troll. You look good in blue.

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    • Nathaniel Horn
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 1:33am

      I think she must be talking about Moncine or rather the horses arse hiding behind the fake name Moncine saying fake things all the day long…

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    • Jacque
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 8:49am

      No Dictator BO is LOSING HIS EMPIRE…2012 can’t come soon enough. Go back to reading media matters…

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  • Phreedom
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:19am

    Slow news day? Seriously?

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  • oriondma05
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:17am

    I didn’t read the whole thing, but I feel bad for the couple because this might break them up. But anyways, they’re Yankmes fans and that denotes a severe character flaw in them as well.

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  • mossbrain
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:17am

    Typical board up the arse British. They parade around in their silly hats with teeth yellower than a horse’s teeth, braying like donkeys, thinking they are God’s gift to earth when they are really just a bunch of fancy dressed up mules. As a matter of fact Mrs. Bourne looks a lot like Francis the talking Mule, a great grandaughter of the mule and it’s farrier perhaps?

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    • oldwmn
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 10:01am

      My best friend lives in North Yorkshire and I would rather sit next to a British Person with yellow teeth then a MORON AMERICAN who spends all day looking in the mirror shaking their (_)(_) and spending $38.00 for teeth whitener, and carrying a $500 purse to the club , the same American MORONS who can not count change back from a $20.00 or find USA on a world map.. I LOVED
      the MOTHERS EMAIL its about time these YAH KNOW LIKE YAH KNOW little witches got some manners..

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  • yanki161
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:14am

    I was prepared to hate the mother-in-law because that’s so easy to do. But after reading her letter, I think she was right to write it. I think she MAY have a point.

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    • booger71
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:35am

      Me too

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    • rockmanlinux
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:42am

      If I were Freddie and my mother kept that long of a list of someone I was dating. I’d probably cut her off. No one will ever be good enough. Blaze is reporting this because people are getting like this…and worse. Starts with manners, social class, on and on. Soon it’ll be just JEW or Christian or …

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    • brendafaye
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:58am

      Yes, I think the future mother-in-law has some quite valid points.

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    • codygreenhalgh
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:01pm

      I think you may be right about that, I would have to go about 50 percent. Half of the things were probably legitimate concerns, but the other half seem to just be insults.

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    • OUTRIDER WRITER
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:07pm

      @Yank***
      Mother of the groom to be is correct about all the etiquette points she commented on, except of course that she commented on them.

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    • NHwinter
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:30pm

      She does have a point, but perhaps it would have been better to talk to her son in a concerned way. It is his choice and if he wants to help his wife-to-be have better manners, then its up to him. This generation is lacking in manners, but look at politicians, the MSM, and the unions. What a horrible example they have been. Lacking in civility and decorum. The standard needs to be lifted greatly.

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    • Baron_Doom
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:32pm

      I completely agree. The future mother-in-law was simply putting her foot down as to what is acceptable behavior under her own roof. There is nothing “snotty” about that, but it sounds as if the future daughter-in-law might have been acting quite snotty to deserve such a reprimand.

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    • Captain Crunch
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:22pm

      Agreed. Presumptous ill manored people are like unruly horses in need of a good trainer. Kind of like a guest kicking off their shoes in your home only to reveal the source of the aroma you noticed a moment before. I think this mother-in-law-to-be is right on.

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    • ewestbrook
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:45pm

      I agree. What the bride’s father said about the future mother-in-law was extremely tacky. From the mother-in-law’s letter it sounds like the daughter takes after her father. I also pity Freddie.

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    • assayknowledge
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:40pm

      I agree.

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    • sbeejustsaying
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:57pm

      I was thinking the same thing.

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    • swampbuck
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 7:39pm

      Yep the mom is right on this one.. The soon to be daughter in law is a spoiled led brat…

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    • softunderbelly
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 10:27pm

      I agree with you.

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    • ConservativeCanuck
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 10:52pm

      Yeah, I thought she was a bit of a snob (and possibly is), but I have to agree with her, especially the diabetes and being prepared. On the other hand, isn’t it in poor taste to send this email, when she could’ve told her all this in person. She doesn’t know the “etiquette” of emails … they are not always private.

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    • De minimus
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 3:49am

      She does indeed! And she stated it very clearly and directly. It will no doubt fall upon deaf ears, for I have see very poor people exhibit better manners than are describe here.

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    • kennyg933
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 7:35am

      I totally agree! I thought that I was going to read mother-in-law-’zilla, but I have no problem with what she wrote. If what she wrote is true, the young lady is a pig, and Freddie is in trouble. She’s layy, laying in bed waiting to be served, she is crass and offensive, busting on her new family at their pub, She has bride-zilla delusions of grandeur and lacks humility. Clearly, she is a typical American pig of a bratty hosebag, the type I warn my son about. The fact that the little bitch took this to the media to tattle on Mom-in-law in order to bolster her case is evidence against piggy. She should have just shut up and deleted this. Now Freddie and the world knows what she is about. Freddie, there is other ass out there that won’t do this to you. If you breed with this beast, you will regret being born and YOU will be angry with your mom. Mother knows best, Freddie. Run like the wind.

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  • I.Gaspar
    Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:09am

    When will the Blaze start following Paris Hilton and David Hasselhoof?
    By the looks of some recent stories, my guess is “soon”.

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    • Kurty C Wipe
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:14am

      As the world burns…really??? Come on Blaze!

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    • BurntHills
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:54am

      no, really, the world needs more of this. these young people today are totally without ANY manners or resepct for anyone else. look what happened to the Beck Family. the mortons that attacked them should have been told NO they do NOT have a choice of what is for breakfast, NO they will NOT get a trophy at TBall unless they WIN it, NO they will NOT get an A just for showing up in class.

      the same applies to marrying into a family. you do NOT act like you are a spoiled fart like OBAMA and expect to be waited on.

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    • Shasta
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:58am

      Agreed. Just heard that Obummer may unilaterally increase the debt limit, bypassing congress again, and THIS is the story the Blaze chose?

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    • neither1
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 5:26pm

      Are you kidding with that avatar pic? Are you KIDDING??

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    • jhaydeng
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 8:10am

      C’mon Blaze! April Fools joke? Wait, Mr. Soros is that you?

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    • Buck Bagaw
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 9:37am

      They’re trying to draw the Oprah Crowd, what else could it be??

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    • AKITAMOMMY
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 10:06am

      Re read the letter, it might do you some good.

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    • T-2
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:15am

      I brought bagel to work this morning, so that makes me the guy who bring breakfast not the guy that came to work late… that’s as much relevant of a reply as this story.

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    • Dustyluv
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:18am

      She says…”Your Daddy has his head stuck upp his a@@ so far he doesn’t know if he should speak or fart”….and the daughter is the one that is insulting??? Look in the mirror lady.

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    • Fool
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:30am

      You read that wrong. The bride’s father said that about the mother-in-law to be.

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    • SDBorn
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:34am

      I think the bride-to-be’s father said that about the author of the email, mother of the groom-to-be.

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    • yanki161
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:40am

      No, Dusty. Her father said that of the mother-in-law letter writer.

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    • Average_Joseph
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:59am

      Please read the story again; the father was quoted saying that.

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    • vennoye
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:07pm

      Re-read the quote, that quote is from the Father of the Bride about the future Mother-In-Law!!! Lots of class there! BTW….if the kids do get married, they probably need to move to US. Going to be a ROCKY ROAD if they stay in UK!! :-) Little ole Freddie gonna feel like a rubber band!

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    • TheNewAmericanPatriot
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:22pm

      It was the daughter-in-laws father who said that…so now you now where the girl gets her manners from.

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    • AlmostaCowboy
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:25pm

      It was actually the bride’s father who said that.

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    • LAM2
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:58pm

      Dustyluv — you need to read a bit more carefully — the future mother-in-law didn’t make that comment; it was the father of the bride-to-be, referring to his daughter’s future mother-in-law (clearly an insufferable woman). They all sound like a bunch of gems. The quote is below.

      The bride‘s father didn’t take too kindly to being called out in the e-mail.

      “I think she has her head stuck so far up her own a*** she doesn’t know whether to speak or fart,” he said.

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    • bellasbrat
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:00pm

      Reread it Dustyluv. The bride’s father said that about the future mum-in-law.

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    • morostheos
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:01pm

      That was the father of the bride that said that about the Mother-in-Law, not vice versa.

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    • takemout
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:51pm

      @ Dusty. If you can read, the quote you refer to is from the fiance’s father. He is the bride to be‘s father not the groom to be’s mother.

      You must have done very well in school.

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    • Jade_Peverell
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:13pm

      Actually, the bride’s father said that about the future mother in law, so no mirror looking needed. Maybe the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, as they say.

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    • coffee just black
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 4:22pm

      The bride‘s father didn’t take too kindly to being called out in the e-mail.

      The happy couple.

      “I think she has her head stuck so far up her own a*** she doesn’t know whether to speak or fart,” he said.

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    • JEANNIEMAC
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 5:11pm

      The bride’s father made this comment about the mother of the prospective groom. The groom‘s mother wrote the letter about which the bride’s father made the remark.

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    • Echo5Mike
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 5:30pm

      The mother-in-law didn’t say that. The girl’s father said it about her.

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    • honeyducote
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 9:29pm

      Dustyluv, please read again. The head up the a** comment was the reaction of the girls father.

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    • theBigToe
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 1:37am

      I think you read it wrong, the bride’s father said that about the mother-in-law who wrote the email.

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    • justsaying
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 8:28am

      The mother-in-law didn’t say this. The girl’s father did.

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    • Eric
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 11:58am

      Dustyluv,

      Why don’t you bother properly reading things, before you post erroneous commentary? The _FATHER_ said that, not the mother-in-law.

      “I think she has her head stuck so far up her own a*** she doesn’t know whether to speak or fart,” he said.

      Notice how it says “he said,” after that comment? Here’s some advice: if you’re going to take the time to post your two-cents, then take the time to read properly, what you’re commenting on firstly, for you risk sounding as buffoon-like as that mother.

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    • yooperjo
      Posted on July 2, 2011 at 4:50pm

      Actually, the bride’s father said that. Reread the article! I also agree that manners today are sorely lacking, but there are manners, and there is snobbery. This woman is a snob.

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    • HUGGINGMYBABIES
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:46am

      I thought I could hate the mother in law too…..but you know what? She is not pointing out small things….she’s calling out what appears to be a typical boorish 20-something on her bad manners. Writing a note when you stay in someone’s home and or providing a gift are commen sense. My two little ones will attend a local finishing school….somethings are just worth it. Loved the line about her wanting a wedding in a castle and how the Brits consider that Hollywood! Sorry I’m siding with the MIL on this one!

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    • 1proudAmerican
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:49am

      It sounds like the son found a woman who is completely different from his mother. I pitty the bride, not the son. This story is not worthy of The Blaze.

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    • Robert-CA
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:55am

      Exactly .
      I’m also so worried about Justin Bieber & lady Kaka .

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    • Susie
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:07pm

      I enjoyed this piece. I have been so tempted myself to speak up about the shocking lack of plain old fashioned manners today. You for one are showing a marked lack of same by assuming you have the right to dictate what the rest of us may or may not find either educational or entertaining. Don’t want to read it ? Then don’t click on it.

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    • mikem1969
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:11pm

      Well you can tell he huffpo guy is now ruining the blaze. Hey Glenn Beck, fire the huffpo sob before the blaze is ruined for good.

      I read the email, and I agree with the mother in law on most of it. When you are at someone elses home, you don’t act like you own it or are a queen in waiting.

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    • WhiteFang
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:14pm

      I am with the mother-in-law on this one. Everything she noted in her email sounds very legitimate.

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    • hersey10
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 12:15pm

      I’m glad this was posted despite the objections of others . Let this be a lesson to all . Thank you Jon Seidl for posting .

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    • EgoBrain
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:17pm

      This is hilarious! I can’t do politics, day in and day out.

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    • Pujols
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:27pm

      Go back to the Huffington Post.

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    • BoiseBaked
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:28pm

      Really. Who cares? Throw a rock, hit a crappy in-law.

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    • Jaycen
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 1:48pm

      Seriously, Blazers – I’m disappointed.

      This is a great article. It exemplifies the deterioration of our own society. The mother-in-law is RIGHT!

      Her twit daughter-to-be is a jerk. This is completely relevent to what’s happening in America today. Unfortunately, it took a Brit to point it out.

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    • Cptnjarhead
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:08pm

      remind me not to have dinner at that chicks house!
      life is way to short, relax

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    • Professional Infidel
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 2:44pm

      obviously a mama’s boy. screw my mom. she has the worst manners. don‘t know what that makes me but it isnt a mama’a boy.

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    • chazman
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:40pm

      Gawd! Is everybody here having a bad acid trip today? Watch your spelling! Sit up straight! Don’t talk with your mouth full! Stop picking your nose! Say thank you, you ungrateful brat! Now get outta my sight!

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    • king1
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:46pm

      ok except for picking my nose that is one of lifes (pardon the pun) little pleasures :)

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    • TimCotter
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 3:44pm

      Roger that!

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    • obamanation
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 4:43pm

      A man wrote this article?

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    • mils
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 4:55pm

      THANKS FO A LITTLE LIGHT NEWS…FUNNY

      Why would ANYONE put up with this woman???? leave her in the dest, bury her, disengage yourself from her, you don’t need her!!!!!!!!!!

      hate this new site

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    • ThatsRight
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 5:18pm

      I enjoyed this story only because I am sick of gloom and doom every hour on the hour.
      While Miss Manners shouldn’ have been so forthcoming with all of (her requirements). Much of what she said is in fact fair eticate. For generations now, we have failed to teach these common decencies.

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    • SLARTIBARTFAST
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 5:39pm

      I.Gaspar
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      Lighten up! Are we just here to focus on the doom and gloom the world has become? And what better way to enliven the day than with some stuck-up British prig making a fool of herself? It’s not like The Blaze has become TMZ! Sit back and relax, and before you know it something awful will have happened somewhere, and you’ll feel all better.

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    • rox
      Posted on July 1, 2011 at 11:27pm

      What is this? Who are these people? Why do we care?

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