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Washington St. Indian Tribe Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage

Suquamish Tribe in Washington State Honors Heather Pursers Request to Recognize Same Sex Marriage

Heather Purser

SEATTLE (The Blaze/AP) — Gay marriage isn’t legal in Washington state, but that hasn’t stopped an Indian tribe from recognizing same-sex unions.

Standing up before dozens of Suquamish Tribal members at a general council meeting in March, Heather Purser told them she was a lesbian, and asked her people to recognize same-sex marriages at the tribe’s Washington state reservation.

Even after four years of lobbying tribal members, the 28-year-old didn’t know how much support she had. ”When I turned around to sit back down I was shaking,” Purser recalled Tuesday.

Then the council put the issue to a voice vote of the people. “Everyone said aye. No one said nay,” Purser said. On Monday, the Suquamish Tribal Council ratified the people’s wishes and recognized gay marriage, making it only the second tribe in the country known to do so.

The new law allows the tribal court to issue a marriage license to two unmarried people, regardless of their sex, if they’re at least 18 years old and at least one of them is enrolled in the tribe. Leonard Forsman, chairman of the Suquamish Tribe, wants to be sure people understand the tribe’s stance:

“We are open and tolerant, and we want to make sure our members are offered the opportunity to be happy and free in their lives. This lined up with our values as a tribe. We don’t discriminate.

In an interview with the Associated Press, Forsman continued:

“I‘m just happy that we’re able to get the work done that will allow the same rights and privileges to all people, regardless of sexual orientation. It was a process that took longer than expected. We have a lot [of] competing needs.”

It will be up to other courts to decide if unions granted under the Suquamish ordinance will be recognized elsewhere in Washington, said the tribe’s attorney, Michelle Hansen.

Gay marriage is still illegal in the state, but the Legislature this year approved a measure recognizing same-sex unions from other jurisdictions, which include other nations. State lawmakers also have approved a so-called “everything but marriage” law, granting same-sex couples many rights.

“I wanted to feel accepted by my tribe,” Purser said. “I was expecting a fight to be ugly. But I was so shocked. I guess I was expecting the worst out of people. I was expecting the worst out of my people.”

Purser came out to her family when she was 16 and decided to campaign for gay marriage in her tribe after college. She approached the Tribal Council, which she said was supportive but not encouraging. She said council members told her to talk to elders about the issue and assigned a tribal attorney to work with her.

But Purser became discouraged, thinking the tribe was taking too long. She moved to Seattle, to a gay-friendly neighborhood, where she met her partner.

Purser, who is a seafood diver for the tribe, returned to the reservation in March, this time intent on voicing her campaign to the people at the annual general membership meeting.

She stepped to the microphone and repeated her plea for the tribe to recognize gay couples. Tribal Council members said they would continue considering it. She sat down. But people around her encouraged to stand up again. She then asked for a voice vote.

“I’m proud that she stood up for herself and took a stand. You bet,” said Heather’s father, Rob Purser. “A father’s main concern is that your children are happy, and you do what you can to help them.”

Hansen said other jurisdictions will have to decide whether to uphold same-sex unions performed on the Suquamish’s reservation.

The Coquille Indian Tribe on the southern Oregon coast is the only other tribe that recognizes same-sex marriage, said Matthew L.M. Fletcher, a law professor at the Michigan State University Indigenous Law Center.

The Coquille adopted its law sanctioning gay marriage in 2008. Most tribal law doesn’t address the issue. In 2005, efforts to grant marriage rights at the nation’s largest tribe, the Navajo, were defeated.

Same-sex marriage licenses also are granted by New York, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont, plus Washington, D.C.

The Suquamish Tribe has about 1,000 enrolled members, according to its website. Its reservation is on the shores of the Puget Sound, about an hour from Seattle. The city of Seattle is named after its most famous member, Chief Seattle, who led a confederation of tribes in the first half of the 1800s.

While Heather Purser lobbied for marriage, she said she’s not yet taking that step. But her victory has helped her deal with many personal issues.

“I have a lot of bitterness inside of me,” she said. “Ever since (the vote), a lot of that pain is just gone.”

Comments (76)

  • klevalt
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:35pm

    LOL! What is interesting is the fact that I live not 8 miles from the reservation, and I have not heard a word about this in any news organization in the area!!! God, I pray that this area of the US will come back to Him on our knees! Please pray for this region, people. We need His direction. Amen.

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    • 13th Imam
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 1:02pm

      Is this really the Fugowey Tribe

      They keep getting lost when leaving the reservation and ask everyone they see,
      “Where the fugowey?

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    • godlovinmom
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 1:30pm

      I lived in the Seattle, Portland area, and like the San Fran area, homosexuality is very common amoung it’s residents…As long as they stay there, I don’t care…I find that gays live in the cities, where they are excepted, small town America, not so much.

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    • Cesium
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 3:52pm

      they‘re american indian’s, if they aren’t of the converted variety, your god is irrelevant..

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    • This_Individual
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 6:20pm

      CESIUM, if that is what you truly believe, not only are you irrelevant, you do not know your God either.

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    • v-vet1968
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:17pm

      13th IMan thats a good one!

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    • RationalJames
      Posted on August 4, 2011 at 8:44am

      I imagine the little aliens from toy story..
      ‘Ooooh the Claaaawwwwww….’

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    • Secret Squirrel
      Posted on August 4, 2011 at 6:39pm

      .
      “May I introduce ”Little feather“ and ”Smiling beaver.”
      Congratulations………….”

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  • olddog
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:24pm

    This is no surprise Indians were mating with the buffalo decades ago, where did you think democrats came from???

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    • v-vet1968
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:20pm

      I agree thats where S. Jackson Lee came about!!!!!

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  • krispy01
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:22pm

    I don‘t want to know what the tribe’s totem pole looks like !

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  • Jim in Houston
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:21pm

    Would anyone expect something different from La La Land North?

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  • riseandshine
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:08pm

    Gay marriage is gay

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  • cntrlfrk
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:06pm

    The Suq what? Tribe?

    .

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  • cloudsofwar
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:37am

    Gay indians. WHO KNEW?

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  • nysparkie
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:36am

    What? All the Long Prong Sheep are dead?

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  • Gonzo
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:34am

    Are those marriages blessed by the spirit of the great white buffalo?

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  • Christian Kalgaard
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:34am

    disgraceful.

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  • Psychosis
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:11am

    not really the best idea if you want your tribe to continue to exist its not like their numbers are growing enough to continue their tribe into the future, this will only hasten their demise into history and memory

    i guess there wont be any more little wampum to pass on the culture if this becomes a fad lol

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    • nysparkie
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:37am

      Ya, in three or four generations they will be extinct people.

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  • teddrunk
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:10am

    who cares…they pray to opossums & skunks…what do they know.

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  • hellnomo
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:00am

    Flaming arrow is now clear to make his bid for chief.

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  • bigfatslob
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:38am

    Yeah, like that redheaded chick really looks like an American Indian….loophole

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    • spirited
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:48am

      …and, who does Barack Obama look like?

      >Things are not always what them seem.

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    • Anonymous T. Irrelevant
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:05am

      Probably 128th or 264th part Indian, like so many fake Indian people who take advantage of the laws and claim to speak for more full-blood Native Americans. This sounds more like a commune than a tribe, but I suppose they are the same thing.

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    • smithclar3nc3
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:28am

      yeah that Redheads Indians name is milkman running.

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  • semihardrock
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:36am

    They could probably make it LEGAL to shoot them as well BEING all US Indian Tribes follow NO LAWS and are making them up as they go WHICH is why there are CASINO’s on ALL of the reservations EVEN THOUGH the most States consider gambling illegal.

    LABOR UNIONS are ALSO becoming a ritual on INDIAN RESERVATIONS!

    Very EASY to hide from the Government Officials on an Indian Reservation where they are DESPISED and UNWANTED! Native Americans are THE ORIGINAL Tea Party Members!

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    • Attention2Detail
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:51pm

      They are not the original TEA party members. All Indian reservations survive on U.S. tax dollars. Most Indians are on at least one government entitlement program. The casinos only benefit the tribal leaders.

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  • Locked
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:34am

    “Indian.” Sigh. They’re Native Americans; Indians are from India.

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    • MONICNE
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:43am

      They are the aboriginals from Washington Street!

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  • capitalismrocks
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:33am

    Hmmmm… well, they are a sovereign nation, so the native American Indians can do whatever they please within their lands.

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    • smithclar3nc3
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:49am

      So why does billions of tax dollars a year go to reservations? WTF
      SOVERIEGN NATIONS TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES.

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  • SpankDaMonkey
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:31am

    .
    Big Chief Idontknowheretostickit has spoken. That is all……………….

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  • TRONINTHEMORNING
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:30am

    ZAP, my entire office is crying with laughter!

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  • congresswatcher1
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:29am

    You would think that the Indian Tribes would have more sense than this.

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  • SpankDaMonkey
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:29am

    .
    Tonto just rolled over…..

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  • ZAP
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:25am

    Now we got queer Indians.How about a queer in the White House?

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  • psst
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:25am

    C’mon. this is Wash State. A leftist /lib enclave.
    It’s not beyond the realm of possibility that the Abomination lifestyle should rub off on the Mighty Redmen.women.
    Mebbe Hershey should think of building Choco factories on Indian land.

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    • iheartusa
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 12:15pm

      There are many conservatives on the eastern side of the state that are tired of what liberals on the western side are doing to our state. We are one of only 2 states where illegal aliens can get a driver’s license without proof of citizenship! Then they are registered to vote, with the help of many “community organizations”. Who do you think they are voting for?

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  • MONICNE
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:23am

    Welcome to Washington Street!

    Anyone who tribes here can marry. And if you don’t like that, stay away.

    OK Thanks!

    TEA

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  • TRONINTHEMORNING
    Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:22am

    Well goody gum drops for them.. Have gay ole time, kids.

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    • loriann12
      Posted on August 3, 2011 at 10:34am

      I’m glad my Indian heritage is Osage, Blackfoot and Cherokee and not that tribe. I’d be ashamed.

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