I hate black culture, try that one out see how well it goes.
December 20, 2014 at 5:49am
What sad is rarely does anyone even know what to lust after means. Of course that passage means wife and not women (the word itself is used as wife and women), which is the logical translation but why worry about that. How do you know it means wife simple, ”
27 “Ἠκούσατε ὅτι ἐρρέθη Οὐ μοιχεύσεις”
Furthermore the word for women is:
The word used is “guné” “γυναῖκα”
Which means wife or women, but as we will see the issue is adultery, which indicates marriage (ps polygamy is still practiced at this time).
It super clear when you don’t split the writing in half. “27 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart”.
And oh snap all you bible thumps aren’t even following the bible making up your own rules and changing what the bible actually states. Hmm can i get an AMEN. Literally, can we put AMEN here?
But you are correct that is a far cry from 82% divorce rate for 10 years of women with 16-20 pre-martial partners.
 December 20, 2014 at 4:29am
I say go to porn, why are you even married i mean just take a few of her pictures and go live alone ina small apt. for cheap. **** you still have her pictures and well if those are good enough for you in marriage they should be out of marriage too.
I am being snarky here i would lay down the line, listen i want to have sex with my wife if thats too much too ask then who am i suppose to have sex with? Ask her that? If not you then who? If she blows that off she don’t give a **** about you sorry mate. I mean it sounds like you already made this kid of apparent and she didn’t give a rats ass. Let her know its not acceptable to you.
 December 20, 2014 at 4:20am
Sure thats what did it… Not.
[-1] December 20, 2014 at 4:19am
“The corn syrup in pop gives you diabetes and makes you fat.”
Does provide a link.. ps you cannot because you’re talking out of your ass.
December 20, 2014 at 4:14am
Matt’s a natural beta so it seems natural to act like a serf of his women folk.
 December 20, 2014 at 4:05am
For being honest and saying what Matt wouldn’t.
The issue is clear as day; women aren’t hold their end of the relationship up and the entire society tells them they don’t have to then it shames men to stay in those relationship anyways.
[-1] December 20, 2014 at 3:59am
I doubt that account. 100% calling ********. I am not calling you a lair, I am sure that that is her account of the story. It might even be his, but he was just then tailoring his side of the story to protect her.
Sorry but i don’t believe it, sure i think that has and does occur but i also think its super rare.
December 20, 2014 at 3:55am
What women does he look on, is an image a person?
[-6] December 20, 2014 at 3:53am
“Thank you Matt for being so real. No matter what the critics say, you have spoken the truth. Truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth!”
Matt hates the truth thats why he wrote this article. People who tell 1/2 truths hate full truths.
“True, men have a need for sex that must be fulfilled, but we can’t use that as an excuse to commit adultery.” Ok say this premise is true. If men have a need for sex, they are married, and that need is not being met how could this occur? They want sex, they have a partner to have sex, they have sex. This works until they have a partner to have sex, because their partner doesn’t want sex. They have a need for sex but that need is not met by the person who was like, yeah i want to be the person to exclusively meet that need. So which partner isn’t upholding their end of the deal and when the the other partner decides to meet that need on their own they do so in concession to the other partner’s needs. But wait this isn’t enough for Matt and his ilk they cannot have the need met at all.
So the real truth is women don’t want to meet the biological needs of their male partners, they don’t want other women meeting that need, and they don’t want men meeting that need themselves. I wonder what kind of response Matt would get if he laid out a similar situation for women? Well men are easy targets aren’t they.
If someone isn't getting what they need from their marriage and needs to go elsewhere, they should end the marriage first, not be a cheater.
[-5] December 20, 2014 at 3:35am
What you fail to realize is those videos games are more attractive and fulfilling than those women. So he picked right, hey if he finds a women worth his attention over those games he will give it to her otherwise….
“He doesn’t work, and he doesn’t want to, even though he has degrees from some leading Ivy League universities” Why should he work, for who? I mean have you looked at future prospects of the US economy (ps i have a ton of savings and investments but i assume i’ll lose it all).
“…addicted to porn, one who not only lost his wife, but also his job when he got caught surfing porn at work.” Why did he he lose his wife? Were they christian? No one loses there wife because porn, i mean did it kill her or steal her or him?
[-3] December 20, 2014 at 3:12am
Bingo. He basically, tells men to be submissive but not passive? Its a joke. Give women everything they want even though what they want contradicts itself.
December 20, 2014 at 3:00am
Here is an idea you got married right made a life together, probably spent time together similarly before being married? Now you want to change it, and he is the problem? You’re the problem.
“A bigger house” Why? You don’t need a big house for a family, forever, people didn’t have houses modern size. **** in what you would call a small house today used to fit 10 children.
“Just understand that everyone grows and changes” Oh so if your husband would ahve grown into someone who only plays videos games (no job) and drinking beer till super drunk. Thats cool because you know grow with him? No you are the one who wanted to change your relationship, because you wanted stuff that wasn’t part of your relationship. Thats not his to make happen for you its your job then to make him want it also not force him to comply; whats wrong with you.
 December 20, 2014 at 2:52am
Hey, don’t even ” researched couples” without linking the research.
December 20, 2014 at 2:51am
Bingo. Here is a question does that porn viewing increase has the rate of sex in a marriage decreases? The answer is yes, come on guys this isn’t rocket science.
So if women really didn’t want men viewing porn they could fix that. Its just they don’t want their men’s sexual need to be met by pixels, print, or otherwise and they also don’t want to meet those needs themselves but hey so what this is the guys’ fault…
December 20, 2014 at 2:47am
Loves? What does that mean? I love you but sleep in a separate bed and no sex but for once every year kinda love?
December 20, 2014 at 2:46am
The funny thing is hes like well do everything the women wants, but be a leader….
[-3] December 20, 2014 at 2:42am
His writings are all like this its sickening. Women are unable to regulate themselves so men you have to give them the world… just gross.
 December 20, 2014 at 2:41am
(Edited for succinctness)
Man Matt …
Here is a question, do men mind if women view porn?
Do men want the house super clean?
Do men stay home with the kids and work as little as their partners?
Passiveness? Really, should men tell women to shut-up they are watching their porn (because the women doesn’t want to engage in a sexual act or just tell them to have sex regardless of their desires?) Should they tell them if you want it clean clean it yourself? See the overwhelming idiocy you’re putting forward here?
Immature? Basing your “maturity” level on what women tell you they want isn’t maturity its infantilism.
Why don’t you rename this article, “Give women what they want: Your desires don’t matter, she a women after all and its your job to make her satisfied in life.”
Stop throwing your fellow men under a bus, i believe this is called ***** begging.
Why don’t you tell women, hey if you want a man who cleans up all the time, marry one like that. Its not your job to remake your partner, you had your choice live with it. If you’re having sex three (3) times a week when you got married expect to continue that well into your late 50s or 60s or else accept he might seek release elsewhere. And for god sakes when a man chooses porn instead of an affair (because you changed your relationship, most likely without ever discussing it with him) praise him for being faithful.
Hey I can see you're either not in a relationship with a woman or you won't be for long. Keep up the attitudes. Women work as hard as men outside the home these days, and stats show that even in households where men "help", the woman has more work (8hrs more per week) if a man is present than if he is not. In many cases women are the main breadwinners; usually it is the woman who stands up for anything that goes wrong for the kids, and financially, and in other ways. So asking Mr to pitch in a little washing some dishes (you wouldn't consider scrubbing the toilets like we do, would you, though it's your mess too), is not unreasonable. Unless of course you were raised to be The Little Prince...