User Profile: BellaMia7

BellaMia7

Member Since: September 01, 2010

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  • A contract is a contract. People cheat on contracts regularly. Doesn’t make it right. People are faithful to contracts as well. Its a matter of good character.

  • The problem is that people have invested themselves, sometimes for decades into a relationship – and then there are the children. A large percentage of people do go on and repair their marriage after infidelity. You get in a crash with your Lamborgini which you own in full, do you trash it or fix it? People sometimes need additional emotional support to learn how to trust again, and hold the other person accountable. They are correct to feel the distrust, but there are ways to rebuild.

    Dr. Hartley at http://www.marriagebuilders.com has Steps to Survive Infidelity
    http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5525_qa.html

  • At marriagebuilders.com, Dr. Hartley mentions that he has in his practice women who have been cheated on, and a subset of these had also been raped by strangers. He said almost every one of these rape victims, said the cheating by the trusted companion was worse than the violent rape by a stranger. When you think about it, it makes sense. What you imagined was safe, was completely unsafe – your own judgement betrayed you into allow you to feel that sense of safety and peace and love. How can you trust yourself to learn to perceive what is really happening? It’s a very, weird distortion of reality that takes place. You are literally, living with the enemy. Pat Robertson must not have read the research that says the best results are when the cheated on partner is allowed to bring up the infidelity over and over, and the cheater is patient and willing to be supportive of the healing process – however long that takes. Me? I don’t think I could trust my spouse ever again. I could be wrong.

    Dr. Hartley has a webpage that gives: Steps to Surviving Infidelity

    http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5525_qa.html

  • And she reaches 3.5 million people just on Facebook. Her statement will be linked in hundreds of other articles. Remember the Death Panel? It’s coming. Even Paul Krugman admitted that’s how we reform the health system; higher taxes on the middle class, and death panels. Palin is a king maker. Ask Ted Cruz.

  • The criminal mind resists accountability in every form. They dig in deeper like parasites burrowing into it’s host. People like Hillary are like cockroaches, they scurry on and on, ready to repel even a nuclear assault. This has all happened because the character immune system of of the American People has become so narcissistic and self-indulgent that Obama only seemed cool – and they were not repelled by his terrorist ties, and obvious Muslim upbringing. Remember the movie with Sandra Bullock on a bus being driven by terrorist Dennis Hopper, and if it slows below 50mph, it blows up? America is now on that bus, and Obama is in the driver’s seat.

  • She was trying to start a legitimate process and crying out for help. Instead the government @-holes had her arrested instead of applying good judgement and common sense to a person suffering with a mental illness. Like arresting someone for vagrancy who has a seizure and passes out. Obviously there has to be laws against advertising children so that full on child selling doesn’t go on – but she was looking for a legitimate solution. We are in an abusive relationship with our government. PS. If under distress – turn to a clergyman or priest for help, or an organization like BIRTHRIGHT who support parents in their desires to give birth and be good parents.

  • The country is imploding and these senators don’t have anything better to do than smooze with the people they are required to oversee and monitor. WTF? These incestuous relationships must end. Outrageously inappropriate. Time to make a rule that the various branches cannot “play” together.

  • Democrats cannot keep us safe. Here’s the proof – they are focused on the wrong, people at the wrong time, and the wrong issues at the wrong place.

  • A family member had an abortion when her doctor told her that she had to have her gallbladder out immediately and an abortion. She had both surgeries – the problem wasn’t with her gallbladder they found out.

  • Wow, just imagine if Cher had been reared in a loving, two-parent, stable family with a mom and dad. Liberals fear the natural family.