Have mercy on these girls. They were neglected by parents who wanted to prove ‘I can have a baby’ and dropped them off at daycare. These girls don’t know loyal love from parents. They are seeking love because childhood was empty from real mom & dad. They don’t know how to wait & they don’t know patience. The girls are unaware some STDs/STIs are latent & will wreak havoc on them in the future, such as Pelvic Inflammatory Disease which could cause ectopic pregnancy. So many of these STDs could render sterility when they DO find a loving man who will forgive their weakness.
The girls also don’t consider that when walking down the aisle to marry: “why would this man be loyal to ME if he’s been with 12 or more before? Why am I better than girl #4 or girl #10 or girl #128? If he ran out on them, will he run out on me? Can he go through challenges or will he run away like a coward? Can he teach our children loyalty, self-discipline, goodness, patience, wisdom?
The more one sleeps around, the less likely one is able to truly love another on a permanent basis so abstinence (and loyalty) is key.
"Why would he be loyal to ME?" The same could be said for anyone who has ever been in a previous relationship. It's also why people should date and get to know each other for a long time before getting married.
"Why am I better than girl #4 or girl #10 or girl #128?"- If that comment is questioning about sexual performance, I would argue that having previous partners allows a person to figure out what they like sexually instead of marrying someone and finding out that you both have entirely different sexual preferences. Further, if he is marrying you, then he thinks you are better than those other girls, or he would have tried to marry them.
December 14, 2012 at 11:26pm
Not sure that it’s the parent’s fault- we don’t know enough yet. This shooter could have been on ‘prescription’ meds that altered his brain/body chemistry enough to affect his capacity to reason. Remember 1) Accutane [anti-acne med]- side effects, not the least of which are: depression, psychosis,suicide,aggressive or violent behaviors; 2) Lariam [ant-malarial]- known to cause neuropsychiatric side effects, including nightmares, depression, hallucinations, paranoia, psychosis and aggression; 3) some ADHD drugs that may contribute to these side effects: visual hallucinations, suicidal ideation, aggression and violent behavior; etc.